i met my botfriends mother for the first time...she is really mean...and every timei look at him i see mother looking at me through his body....what to do....
2006-11-28 18:05:21 · 13 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's not fair! he's not his mother even though he may look like her
2006-11-28 18:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She appears like only a sprint a administration freak and probable plans her finished existence around the cooking as that would desire to be the only factor that she thinks has to make contributions. Have a sort be conscious along with her and recommend that she chefs dinner the different night as you apart from would savour cooking. Make it sparkling that she is a valued loved one individuals and ask her to help with different issues like the ironing or another tedious chore which you does no longer suggestions her doing plenty.
2016-10-13 08:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by dickirson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the mother and stick with him...she is probably just jealous over her son, that u will become his #1 woman now or she doesnt trust u and wants to protect her son...find the oportunity to get to know her better, spend some time with her, she will losen up and learn to trust u...u have to show her her son is safe with u and u wont hurt him...no worries, it will turn out ok, but u have to act now cauz if u start off having a bad relationship with the mother now then it will be this way later on
2006-11-28 18:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it, some mothers are acting like that, theyre only protecting their child. be yourself act naturally, let your bf defend you. a smile and greetings are enough to show the respect to your bf mother. stay calm, no need to be nice with her as long as your doing the right way of respecting the olds.
2006-11-28 18:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Salvacionf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur problem is very common. U just have to have more patience. Time will solve this problem. U watched Monster In Law acted by J.LO? lol.... u can learn a lot from that one.
2006-11-28 18:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your feelings for the bf. If the love is there,you can get past mom. If mom bothers you to the point of distraction..then maybe it's time to find a new BF.
2006-11-28 18:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES, back in high school I went out with one of my friends sisters one night, and when we were parking in the moon light, we started kissing and with the light of the moon, she looked like him. GROSS!!!!!!
Tell you what I would do sweetie,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,RUN QUICK !!!!!
You'll never get his mothers mean vision out of your mind, and eventually, you will get upset with his mother, and each time you do, you will take it out on him. Do both of yourselves a favor and move on before you get too attached.
2006-11-28 18:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha
it seems she has hijacked your mind :)
dont worry much. dont be afraid of her and obssessed abt her, try to avoid her as much as u can. soon u will get forget her and wont se her in ur bf.
other way is that u become close to her. a frnd of hers. when u two will be frnds, u wont be that much petrified of her and wont see her in your bf :)
2006-11-28 18:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by nitin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't a momma's boy then you don't have much to worry about. You don't have to be around her like that do you? If you do just take her for who she is and don't take her meanness personally.
2006-11-28 18:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be really nice and talk t oher and see if the problem is you.
2006-11-28 18:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by cinderellagirl007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋