There is a girl I love very much. However she lives in Fl and we had some trust issues come between us. We have both moved on to seeing other people however she’s the only one I want to be with no matter where I’m at.
She says she loves me but never calls and when she does it’s only for a few seconds. She says I’m asking too much. But how can I feel like she cares for me when I never even hear from her?
She has three kids that I have grown to care about and despite being spoiled rotten I miss them as well. When we are together things are great. But I hate to jump down there head first with the issues between us.
I don’t know what to do it’s been a few months like this and I still love her as much as ever.
2006-11-28 17:45:03 · 11 answers · asked by DJ Dalamar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sounds like the situation I'm in with a guy...except he is in Mexico. He says he loves me, but rarely calls me, etc. I think they might both be unsure about what exactly they want.
Here is what I have decided: Let love take its course. Try to keep busy with your own life and see her when you can. Are you ever going to be able to live in the same city? That's a huge consideration...
Maybe some people are just different in expressing their emotions than others. For instance, my guy said it was hard to believe that I loved him because I don't constantly say it. However, my actions show it. He is the opposite: he constantly says it, but sometimes his actions don't make me feel like it.
I would suggest trying to come to some sort of an agreement on what you can both accept in the relationship, which will take bending on both sides.
Good luck.
2006-11-28 17:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak better then words...words can be empty sometimes and mean nothing...u can see if someone loves u by the things that person does for u, acts around u and when u are not there, if someone does love u ,that person doesnt give up on u no matter what. if she did have those feelings for u she wouldnt have moved on, nor would u and u 2 would have been together today...i guess she loves u only as a friend, but its not what u would want...u never know what she is doing and with who she is now cauz u dont hear from her. i guess she is living her life and u should do the same.
2006-11-29 01:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both actions and words are important in getting a relationship going. If you say out the words, it would sound better and sincere if there's an action to follow.
Try your best to resolve the issues between the two of you, if you really love each other. Best of luck! Ã
2006-11-29 03:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by chet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. I had a gf who told me all the time that she loved me. When she started sleeping around obviously she showed me different. Words are cheap, my friend. Seems love is too these days.
2006-11-29 01:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are never enough when love is concerned. You need to show it in whatever way you can, just follow your heart.
-NmD!
2006-11-29 01:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much and can't stay without her...then forget 'bout the obstacles and do what your heart says.
2006-11-29 01:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words are just that, it takes more than words to express your love for someone.
2006-11-29 02:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is that saying actions speak louder than words.
2006-11-29 01:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's more than words if i said that i love you would you belive me?
2006-11-29 01:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a hint, she hates ya.
2006-11-29 01:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋