The guy I have been seeing says things like "oh mamacita" "que rica" (how rich), don't stop, you can do it, etc., when we are making love. I don't mind one comment like that once in awhile, but one time I started laughing because it was so cheesy to me. He's a latin guy, so I'm sure it's part of his cultural upbringing...I've kind of hinted at it being kinda weird to me, but I think it's like instinct to him...don't wanna offend him, but how can I get him to lay off without being rude???
2006-11-28 17:43:24 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh come on, that sounds awfully cute!
2006-11-28 20:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever talking to your guy about a problem you are having with him in the bedroom, you must choose your words carefully. Being to blunt can totally break down his confidence and then you will have more problems on your hands then when you first started. I would just sit him down and maybe tell him some things that you like to hear during sex. Emphasize how much you like hearing it. The next time you make love he will be so into saying all the things you talked to him about, he won't be thinking about anything else. Well possibly "Oh Mamacita " when he O's (LOL). Just remember to express how you feel in a supportive manner. While in the subject you may be surprised to see where the conversation takes you. Good Luck!
2006-11-29 01:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by iwannabeanofficer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking to him about him when you're not making love. You don't wanna kill the mood after all. Some guys like that kinda thing, Latino or not. If it's just not your cup of tea, you should definitely say something about it. Personally, I think that's hot, especially the Spanish touch. But maybe tea tastes good to me and not to you.
2006-11-29 01:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by aslgirl143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get him to do what you want is to tell him straight out. "Listen, Jose, maybe you could stop talking so much in bed. It's really distracting." See? It's not that offensive.
Or you could mimic his habit and just start moaning and yelling really doofy things in bed. He'll get the point.
Or, whenever he pipes up during the act, nicely cover his mouth. That's the gentlest way I can think of that will get your message across.
BTW, "que rica" does not translate as "how rich". It means "how yummy" in the colloquial.
2006-11-29 01:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
stick ur thumb in his mouth or shove his face..... uhm.. yeah.. everytime he opens his mouth... just keep doing that.. eventually he might just get the hint or just stop cause what you're doing is so much better? lol but yeah honesty would be best but if you really think it'll hurt his pride then just keep his mouth busy.
2006-11-29 01:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck
2006-11-29 01:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oookay i am latin and no that is NOT apart of upbringing!! lol...he probably thinks that you get off by his comments...just tell him straight out that it isn't working for you.
2006-11-29 01:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by likemmkay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well least he's trying. Look at it as a fun quirk.
2006-11-29 01:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by DJ Dalamar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what i am not going to lye to you you can't hey if you don't like put tape on his mouth and say it is something new i learned
2006-11-29 01:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by NaNa BeAr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I cant stop laughing.
2006-11-29 01:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋