I broke up with my ex for more than 8 months. He was abusive. He cheated on me. He knows I have a bf, but he still come to my work everyday. I don't talk or look at him AT ALL. How can I tell/make him stop coming to my work? When is he gonna get the message "I DON'T WANT HIM!"?
2006-11-28 17:42:50 · 9 answers · asked by Let me know 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because I am the only person works there
2006-11-28 17:53:07 · update #1
If you have been upfront about him not going to work and severing ties to him and yet he continues to see you....I recommend telling him you will take legal action if he keeps it up. Then do it. His boundaries are blury. Tell him to stop..then follow up with it. Wow. Scary.
2006-11-28 17:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by smilinlikecrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words, you found a new lay so you are telling us he cheated and was abbusive to make him look bad?????? Look, if he cheated on you, I am sure he would not really care about you any longer, so he would not show up at work everyday, and if he was abusive, he would have kicked the crap out of you or your new boyfriend, the cops would have came and then there would have been a restraining order placed. Let's face it sweety, the cops didn't come, but I bet someone esle did already since the big break up! Trust me sweety, your claims of abuse are the oldest in the books. Face up to the fact that you are a cheater and you screwed your old boyfriend over!
2006-11-29 01:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him this. "Look, I know we had some great times together but I think it's time to move on. We've broken up and the spark of love has just gone out . There's nothing you can do to get me back so just let go and trust me your going to feel better. Changing and moving on is the best thing you can do. And when I broke up with you I wasn't joking and this is the last time that I'm going to talk to you so you can leave me alone now because you and me are over."
2006-11-29 01:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... Your ex-BF is now a stalker.
Talk to the authorities and your company if they can help you.
His actions could lead into something dangerous if left unchecked.
Especially if your new guy comes to pick you up.
I bet there be some teeth loss here.
2006-11-29 02:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Rey Arson II 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, (Insert name), I don't want you anymore. I don't love you. I don't want you to come to my job anymore. If you do I will put an OP out on you. Get out of my face and my life. Then walk away and don't look back.
2006-11-29 01:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was abusive maybe you should look into a restraining order.
2006-11-29 02:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's coming to your work, call security or the cops. Maybe then he'll get the picture. Maybe.
2006-11-29 01:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you dont look at him are talk to him how do u know hes there for u....maybe hes there for someone else
2006-11-29 01:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by renee r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order
2006-11-29 02:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋