How can I help my parents with our recent loss of my brother?

Question

Everyone is in pain with the loss. But I know my parents are most affected by my brother's passing.

Answer 1

The worst thing in the world is to lose a child and I am very sorry for your loss and your parents loss.

It is going to take time for your parents to heal but they will never get over your brother's death, however you can do some things to make it easier for them to function.

You can be kind and try to help out at home and listen to them when they want to talk. Do you have siblings besides you brother?

You need to keep your parents involved in your life and try to strive for excellence in all you do to make them proud.

Answer 2

Let them know you love them. Let them know you loved your brother. Let your life continue, but never attempt to "forget" or encourage them to do so. Grief takes time and has many steps. Many people make the mistake of trying to "rush" through the process and the result is undealt with feelings. You never "get over" the loss of a loved one, but you learn to adjust your life and honor their memory. Everyone heals at their own pace. You may be quicker to come to terms with the loss than your parents. Don't ignore the pain, yours or theirs, but be there for them when they need you. Don't be afraid to hug them and tell them you love them. Let them help you if they can. Helping others is one of the best ways to heal, so give them the opportunity to do so if the chance arises. I'm sorry for your loss. Good luck. By the way, don't be afraid or ashamed to get some professional help if you think it would help.

Answer 3

Im sorry you and your family is going through this.Im sure you heard before that it takes time to get over a loved ones death.No one ever says how long it takes.My mom passed away June 14th of this year.The pain is getting deeper daily.Just be there for your parents.I wish I had someone for me to talk to and cry on their shoulder.Instead I had to be strong for my kids and step father and still have to be strong for them.I have 6 boys.5 of them understand death.Its hard to keep it in.Let your parents talk about the good times they had with your brother.Let them cry.At the same time talk with someone that will listen to you.Everyone needs someone for support at a time like this.

Answer 4

Im sorry for your loss.
Despite it, you can try to keep ur parents active, i mean involve them in some work. Like help around the house and ask for their help. Keep them busy with some, so that their minds can be occupied with something else for a while.
But, time should be given for them to grieve also. That is normal and healthy. They should not bury their feelings completely. Try to talk normally with them, but at certain times, try to share their pain, try to talk to them about it. Try to listen to them. It always good to know that u have and can share ur feelings with someone. SO try to be that person to them. I hope this helped.

Answer 5

I understand dropping a loved one is undesirable, yet why do you experience you'll initiate to get into difficulty and spoil your existence. i comprehend it really is not what you want. i ought to signify seeing a therapist. they are professionals that ought to help you deal with your themes / help you get with the help of them. there is not something incorrect with seeing a therapist. I nonetheless at times see my therapist at the same time as circumstances arise and that i think lost or that i will lose it.

Answer 6

If your pocket permits,take them to a hill station with vast landscape....nature is a good healer.

Answer 7

try not to talk about him near 'em

may Allah give Patience ..