From your perspective, what should I be trying to accomplish? Should I show how I'm willing to walk outside the lines or just that I'm a nice guy.
Should I try for sex on the first date?
Should I try for some heavy kissing on the first date?
Should I just try for a kiss on the first date?
2006-11-28 17:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for being a good guy and mayby a kiss just not an all out kiss
2006-11-28 17:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your goal on a first date should be, being a nice enough guy to get a second date.I remember when I was young and single and half the time while on my first date,I couldn't wait to get home,for me it was always a big turn off to be pawed at all night long,and I would think even if you are male,for gods sake get a grip on yourself and act human instead of acting like a dog in heat.Men with self control can be very sexy,especially after a few dates of having self control,the woman can become very determined to make her date lose his self control,if you catch my drift.
2006-11-29 02:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about trying to get a second date?
You could maybe try being someone who is pleasant to be with, who has a sense of humor and makes your date feel safe, comfortable, and happy. Sincere compliments and interest in the other person will help. Try not to brag about anything gross or illegal that you have done. Be nice to waitresses and anyone else you encounter.
2006-11-29 01:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by UpanishadMorning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first date is not a mission into enemy territory, although it can feel like that. It is rather a chance to get to know each other a little better. Just be yourself and have fun. If she wants you to kiss her, she will make it obvious. You shouldn't, under any circumstances, have sex on the first date.
2006-11-29 01:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, do not go for sex on the first date; get to know your her first.
yes try for a kiss; no do not go for heavy kissing.
2006-11-29 08:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by ariesgirl2002 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start opf with the kiss and see how it goes from there. if you try and have sex with her and she doesnt want to then u just blew a relationship and alot of sex with that....so in the end its better to wait until the 3rd date
2006-11-29 01:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the gusto bro!!!! as soon as you pick her up (or, better yet, weird her out and have her pick you up), just drop your drawers and whip it out!!!! If she slams the door, then just walk away laughing feeling extremely pleased with yourself, or, if she continues than either one of two things......she's a keeper, and you need to hang on to her for life.......or she's a keeper, and you need to hang on to her for life!
2006-11-29 01:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to an anti- war demo and get arrested together.
2006-11-29 01:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best.....try for sex!
2006-11-29 01:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just try to just have fun
2006-11-29 01:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋