Ok this is the continuation of my question from last night. I have more details and please tell me what you think. I know he is calling a woman from work. I didnt come out and ask him about it, what I did was while we were on the subject of his work I asked if she still worked there, as he had stated a couple of weeks ago that she may quit. His response was "I have no idea. I have'nt seen her for 2 weeks" I said "oh really? you havent seen or talked to her for 2 weeks? He said he never works with the women, he only works alone and has no contact with them. Ok so he lied about not talking to her as he has called her, and has admitted he has no reason for contact. Oh by the way I found out she is married because I called her number and her hubby answered. Who should I confront? My boyfriend (he lives w/me), the woman, the womans husband, so he'll know whats going on, or all 3? Or should I just dump him and tell him what I know?
2006-11-28 17:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by meeahcat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and no, I dont give him 20 questions when he gets home, and the fact is he is lying, so he has something to hide. guys, dont blame me because he is a liar.
2006-11-28 17:31:37 · update #1
Also, to WomanWhoR or whatever your name is, the situation is such that no, I dont need him financially because I make tons more than he does. duh didnt you get it that I said HE lives with ME. And no, I'm not having his baby because I'm not that stupid. Any yes, I do have a job, but I also have a relationship thats in trouble and I was only asking for FRIENDLY advise which you apparently are not able to give. So if you dont like my questions, then dont read them you ditz.
2006-11-28 17:52:07 · update #2
In the same way that you previously got a lot of answers from men saying you were crazy, you are also getting a similar number of women telling you to dump the guy. I guess both sets of answers are pretty predictable.
The truth is that you have to do what make YOU happy..if you dont trust the guy anyway, then why are you wasting your time with him in the first place? Equally, if he makes you happy then you should just forget worrying and put it down to groundless suspicion.
Only you can decide for yourself, not us.
2006-11-29 11:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough.
You're with him, you wouldn't marry him because you don't trust him: and he knows you can't afford to leave him.
You deserve to feel like this. We don't.
Learn alternatives or make better plans for yourself.
Why shouldn't he call another woman? You bore him.
Don't you have a job? What details are you reporting? To who?
Do you think we are your boss? His boss? Isn't he a free citizen?
What are these "I have more details"??? Well, gee, what are you, a spy? Raise your own mortgage, honey! Has he broken some rule? Tell the 'phone company - if you pay his 'phone bill - otherwise, why can't he make any calls without your consent?
I ask you! His 'phone bill. His affair. Get real!
What did he promise you? What did you ask of him? You quit working? To live on ... who?
Confront yourself, you fool. Stop playing games with us. Earn a living.
2006-11-29 01:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by WomanWhoReads 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just dump him, he is not honest and faithful to you. So why need to waste the time on such matters. Not worth confronting the woman or the husband cos you have no legal relation with your bf..so its always the best woman win.
Don degrade yourself to such level.....
2006-11-29 01:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the only optimist, but consider that he didn't get to talk to her when he called and why would he call? I recently called someone I know from work, invited her to my apartment. We were alone. Why? Because I needed her to drop my keys off to the manager. Nothing else took place.
2006-11-29 01:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by David Face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop torturing yourself girl!! We all do this, you don't WANT to believe that he is a lying prick, but....HE IS!!! Dump him. You will end up doing it later if you don't do it now! Life is short!! Don't spend it with a person you can't trust!! And, by the way....Never blame the "other woman"....It's HIM that made a commitment to you...And HIM that broke it!!!
2006-11-29 01:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to WomanWho. She doesnt know what she is talking about. She seems quite ignorant, so ignore her. Take my advice good woman, and dump the jerk. He isnt good enough for you and you deserve so much better.
2006-11-29 02:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
do the right thing dump him tell him u know but dont destroy 2 relasionships
2006-11-29 01:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him. He's a cheater and will always be one. You can do better.
2006-11-29 01:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dumb him he;s still lieing, and tell all three it will save you and her husban. it s better for all to know. then u can work it out cause u all know.
2006-11-29 01:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, give the dude a chance. if he is cheating on you maybe its becuase you give him 20 questions when he gets home from work
2006-11-29 01:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋