and anxiety. I really think she was a bomb waitin to explode and i lit the fuse. During the last 2 months of our relationship she was lookin a little low, she would cry all the time and complain her mother was going to kill herself. Her mother works 2 jobs, about 18 hours a day. She hurt her foot and it started to swell and she still went to work. U can tell her mom was wore out shes been workin her whole life. Her dad n moms relationship was bad they fought wen they were 2gethr and didnt even sleep in the same room. Her dad would always be out gettin drunk and wouldnt be home half the time. her brothers treated her like sh**, they didnt even call her by her first name it was either bitc* or sl**. Her little brthr would piss off her mom n then her mom would yell @ my ex. This was almost all the time. I really cant contact her because her anxiety she gets panic attacks when shes on the phone. Shes seekin treatment but it jus seems like shes gettin worse. Did depression hurt our love?
2006-11-28 17:23:09 · 6 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. You 2 never had a chance. She needs help you cant give her. The best thing she can do is get professional help. Maybe if she does and she gets better things could be different. She needs time to heal though. I hope she can live somewhere where she doesnt have to deal with all the abuse.
2006-11-28 17:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel like that you don't want to talk on the phone or talk about sh*t you don't want to talk at all, however if one of your friends just happens to call over and visit it usually leaves you feeling brighter when they leave.Don't hassle her about having a full on relationship look what shes' surrounded by miserable relationships. Just be supportive get her out of the house sometimes and be supportive dont expect anything shes not feeling well try to cheer her up by being there and being strong for her Poor girl hope things get better for her goodluck
2006-11-29 01:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have ADHD, OCD, PTS, BORDERLINE PERSONALITY, DEPRESSION, and ANXIETY. I am almost positive that it did cause problems with your relationship. She can't help the way she feels, but she CAN help the way she handles her feelings outwardly. I had relationship troubles for years because of my mental problems. If she drinks, it intensifies her mental problems. I am also a recovering alcoholic. She needs to keep going to get help for her problem, and if it doesn't work, she may need to be committed for a short time until they can help her. I would not suggest getting ahold of her. She needs to figure out what is going on with herself before she includes someone Else in her mess. If you truly love her and she truly loves you, then somehow you will find a way for it all to work out. If not....then leave her alone and move on with your life. It is hard enough to handle your own thoughts and problems, much less trying to help someone Else with theirs.
2006-11-29 01:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lena S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no anxiety sucks i had it for along time now it hurts, it makes you feel differnt pains comes with it feels like you are having a heart attack your freakin out but stress really causes it try calling again
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2006-11-29 01:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by night hawk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...take her to a psychiatrist...& pray for her wretched mother.
2006-11-29 01:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull her hair
2006-11-29 01:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋