Greiving for a Parent?

Question

I just found out a few hours ago My father has bone cancer they have gien him 2 weeks to live. It is mastizied in to the spine and brain stem. I am leaving sat. to got o KY to be with him. He has had cancer surgery 2 over the last 2 years. I thought I was ready for this. But now I know Im not ready to let him go. hes my father.
How do I say goodbye and deal with all this hurt and pain

Answer 1

Lord bless this grieving person Lord fill her with your spirit to see them through what it is they are facing's them to fill your presence Lord around them and bless them with a peace in their heart knowing that you are their for them what ever their needs are fill them Lord with your love and compassion.And allow them to know that he will never know more to ever suffer again.The Lord will see you through this just call own Him and He will come to you.Talk to Him like you would anyone else...God bless you for I have been were you are at and with out Jesus I could not of made it..What ever you need Jesus will fill you with.Ask Jesus for strenght.And Love your Father and do all you can to make Him comfortable.Spend every minute you can with Him...Talk to Him ask Him things....And above all make sure He is saved and ready to meet our Lord....God bless you And you and your Father is in my prayers...May the Lord shine His light own you and guide you through this...

Answer 2

When my Mom found that she had cancer, the doctor said "she has ten days". She made it about 16 weeks. I hope your Dad gets more time, too, good quality time with you. I hope he is in a good facility or has home hospice who can keep him from pain. My Mom was in the Connecticut Hospice, the first hospice built in the US. People there did not hurt. They were also lucid at least some of the time until near the end. I don't think it's possible to be ready to lose a parent you love. I know that I do get more ready to accept when there you see how sick they are and know they can't get well again.
I am so sorry that your Dad is so sick.

Try to remember all the good times with your Dad. When my Dad was dying I remembered how he took me sledding when I was very little , how he taught me to fly a kite, pushed me on the swing and all sorts of loving things. It helps to know how much you loved each other.

Love never dies.

Answer 3

dealing with the lost of a parent is one of the hardest things that I had to go through. The best thing you can do is relish the time that you have left. Do everything to make him comfortable. Take
pictures of him and you together during happier times. Video tape
him talking. This will help later on. Last but not least by all mean- pray to God for strenght because God promised to never leave you nor forsake you.

Answer 4

I merely desire to declare too you you at the instant are not on my own i'm right here for you if ever you may desire to communicate. I lost my mom 5 years in the past, and at instances i think lost with out her. i be attentive to i haven't lost a baby however the wear nonetheless there in area..

Answer 5

I'm really sorry to hear about your father. I guess my only advice would be to allow yourself the time to grieve, and to see a professional if you feel that you need to. Take care of yourself.