i am a high schooler not that popular and im not ugly but this girl i wanna go out with is really popular and very beatiful and i have talked to her on emails and met her in person a couple times she just had a relation ship with a guy fail about a month ago. how do i get her to go out with me please help thnz
2006-11-28 16:47:32 · 17 answers · asked by THEguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going out with you is the easy part. Asking her to be your girlfriend is the hard part. Just tell her you want to have a drink with her at a local cafe or restaurant and just hang out, talk, joke around, get to know her better, any one of these reasons. She won't say no if you act like a friend rather than someone who is trying to chase her.
2006-11-28 16:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her a bit of time. She's probably still getting over her previous relationship, and just needs a little time to get things together. However, try to get more connected with her. provide her with an open ear so that she can talk to you, which will help in developing your relationship gradually. Once you think she's ready, just say to her "hey, I'd really love to catch up- did you want to see a movie with me this saturday night?" Then take things from there. Popularity has nothing to do with it- if you're as nice a guy as you sound like, and she's not snobby, then where you stand on the social hierachy shouldn't matter at all. Good Lauck and be brave!!! :)
2006-11-29 00:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since her relatiinship failed youmight want to take it slowly and don't make her rush into a new one. Just continue to email her, im call or w/e it is you are doing...denfinstly call her. it is important to see ifyou guys can keep the convo going and alive. Until she is fully over the other guy you should plsy the friend card but still flirt with her so she will know that you are interested and then when the time is right, when she knows you a lil better then ask her out!
2006-11-29 00:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. In high school everyone knows everyone elses social class for school. So she obviously knows you arent the most popular guy but she still has an interest in you. Show an active interest in her and ask her out sometime. The worse thing that could happen is that she says no.
2006-11-29 00:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at her a little longer then usual. Flirt with out saying a word. She will realize that you like her, and that you won't push her into a relationship. She will also come after YOU because you show that you are interested, but aren't too pushy. Once she is interested kinda play hard to get, but be sweet about it. That should catch her eye. If you don't want to wait around, just blurt it out, and see what she says.
2006-11-29 00:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Ask her.
Often us guys miss the obvious things: Ya gotta ask her.
2) Whenever you can, let *her* talk.
Girls love a guy who will listen when they need to talk. Don't even try to solve her problems or give suggestions (until she asks what you would do, or whatever). Let her talk. Especially since she's just gone through a break-up. She probaably needs to unload, ya might say. Let her do it.
Popular guys will never top guys who have heart, I'm convinced.
Barjesse37
2006-11-29 00:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by barjesse37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should start hanging out with her more to get to know her.
Show that your interested in getting to know more about her then tell her how you feel.
Dont change yourself just to get a girl to go out with you. Be yourself and dont be shy.
Im sure everything will work out for you =D
2006-11-29 00:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is woman your talking about. What you need to do is just be yourself and be confident. One thing a woman loves is when a guy can be himself and when a guys confident. Women got to no that guys can step up and go after something when they want it. So just remember BE CONFIDENT!! and go out there and get your woman.
2006-11-29 00:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by jason_isake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a girl go out with you my friend. That's why its called "asking" someone out. So, ask her. If she says no, oh well, you're in high school, there will be plenty more women out there, better looking ones too.
2006-11-29 00:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that you are interested in getting to know her, you can start off with a simple compliment and ask her out, or be friends for a little bit first and then make your move, it depends what you want. and good luck!
2006-11-29 00:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋