Let say that my ex boy friend name is Joe I don't want to use his real name. At my school there is a fitness center I use to go there almost everyday and I use to go out with a guy that would lift weights after school. Supposely he use to be a player but when he met me that supposely I changed him to better person and for the first time he never cheated on me. He stop hanging around with the people that were a bad influence and off course those people didn't like me. They would always say stuff about me like she got a babyface she going to cheat or hurt you. He never listen to them.
There this other guy let say that his name is John I don't want to say his real name. I met John at the fitness center while I was going with Joe. I was going to buy my friend and this other guy who asked me to buy them a water so they gave me the money. Then John ask me if i could buy him a water I was like sure but where the money at so he told me that he didn't have it with him and that he would pay
2006-11-28 16:44:04 · 10 answers · asked by ♥yessy♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me back I told him no because I didn't know him like that so I left. Then a couple of months passed me and Joe are happy enjoying summer we did everything that a couple would do like go out and eat and say I love you we talked about marriage and kids. But as the months pass he started to act weird so i called him and ask him whats wrong he didn't have the balls enough to tell me in my face that I wasn't his type anymore and that he aint feelin me the way he use too. I went into a depression and he is hypocrit he acts like we're friends. More months passed then on Wednesday of last week I was at the bus stop then I see a guy across the street I recognize him it was John. So I decided to talk to him so I said "Do you play a sport here at the school" he was like "yea I run track" I was like "ok" so we was just talking about sports and how we first met (the water that I wouldn't buy it for him) so I said "I didnt know you like that thats why i didnt buy it for u" he said "wat u dont trust
2006-11-28 16:44:50 · update #1
i was gonna pay u back i was gonna pay u back" Then after the arguement we introduce ourselves he told me his name and i told him my name.
Yesterday I was walking to da bus stop I was at da light and he was at da bus stop he said "wats up" I was like "hi" so we started to talk about sports then da bus came early so he sat behind me and i turn around him to be able to talk to him we was just looking into each other eyes he kept touchin his lip i was like "how come u dont smile" he was like "i aint a smily people" i was like "oh wat I'm a smily person i'm always smiling and u got some pretty eyelashes" he was like "wat color are my eyes I was like wat the ***** "um dark brown" he just smiled and nodded I was like "there u go u smiling i'm going to try being serious" I couldn't we both laughed then he said "u got a pretty smile" I think i blushed so i said "i'm about to get off da bus " he said with a scared look "u gettin off right now" i was lik "no the next stop" then he put up
2006-11-28 16:45:53 · update #2
his hand to wave bye but i touched his fingers and said "it was nice meeting u" and he just smiled.
2006-11-28 16:46:14 · update #3
My question is wen u get hurt in life is it possible to get a second chance to fall in love again i'm not saying that i love john just saying is it possible to fall in love again besides Joe and I broke up a very long time ago
2006-11-28 16:52:44 · update #4
I read your response on my question. Thank you for the compliment. And I'm glad to help you!!
Yes of course. It is VERYYYY possible. A lot of people have more than one love in our whole life time. It's all about the timing.
And I think the timing was perfect for you and John. Your relationship with Joe faded away... and then John appears! That's good timing in MY book lol.
It's natural for love to fade sometimes. My friend was with his girlfriend for a year and her feelings faded away. It's a shame, but when your feelings are gone, they're gone. You can't do anything about it.
God has a plan for all of us and will bring us the one in His time. We just have to have faith in Him, that's all.
Friendship is a very important aspect for a good relationship. That was the basis of my relationship with my boyfriend. You get to know them first... know who that person is. And then it's easier to go from there!
One of my favorite quotes is: "A great frienship is the way to a great love."
Good luck with John! Remember to take things slowly. And whatever happens, happens. : }
Well, I hope that helped!
2006-11-29 03:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok yes it is possible to fall in love again. The hurt fades away and you realize that the person you thought you new wasn't the right one and you take the knowledge from that relationship and you use it in the next. Know this Love is 2 things TRUST AND FRIENDSHIP. IF YOU DONT HAVE THIS DONT WASTE ANY MORE TIME. All the knowledge you gain from each relationship will lead you to conclude those 2 things. i can tell you that my parents have been married almost 23 yrs and they are best friends with out the other they would have nothing. I hope you find the man of your dreams. Ask John out I have a good feeling about him. He could be your soul mate he just keeps poping up maybe someone is trying to tell you something. But dont rush it.
2006-11-29 01:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by samcamcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't about getting 2nd chances. If you love someone you do. You're love for the 1st guy has nothing to do with your love for the 2nd guy. You will be making a mistake if you think it's a 2nd chance and start comparing #1 with #2. Just be yourself and have fun with #2 but don't be pushy and remember to enjoy yourself.
2006-11-29 22:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if meeting John again is your second chance? It could be but go slow you JUST got out of a relationship. Make sure he isn't a rebound guy. If he turns out to be your rebound guy you could be hurting a good guy. OR he could be someone just look to be someones rebound guy. Just go really slow.
2006-11-29 00:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is ur question?
if its should u go out with this john? then why not u dont owe joe anything
2006-11-29 00:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say this is a second chance. Go for it girl!
2006-11-29 00:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rhondablitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i can't believe my ADD let me read that whole thing lol
YEAH u get a 2nd chance just take it slow with John.
2006-12-06 15:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by rollindem20z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem isnt that it is a long story the problem is you can say it a quarter of the length and it is boring
2006-11-29 00:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it would be if u feel somethin for him. Talk to him bout it to c wut it is.
2006-11-29 00:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh-huh
2006-11-29 00:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋