He says singles should not be having sex, yet there is no program in the my church that will get the singles together to mingle. Should we just be nuns?
I have 4 kids, had 1 husband, and been screwing since a teen
am I suppose to stop now because I'm in church?
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2006-11-28 16:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you understand, in the eyes of the church sex is only for married people and should be done for procreation(old school strict church). Some also beleive divorrce is a sin. Of course you don't have to stop, your are your own person not a blind little lamb, although in thier eyes you will go to hell.
Church isn't about meeting singles, if that is why you are there, you are there for the wrong reasons.
2006-11-28 16:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your pastor about starting a singles group.
The Bible talks a lot about not having sex unless your married. You should stop having sex until you're married again not because your in church, but because God calls us to. God created sex to be something that a husband and wife enjoy together. We have removed it from it's intended context and because of that we are reaping the disease, the plite of the single mother, and the heartache. God wants to keep us from hurting ourselves, which is why he tells us not to do it. It's not because he's trying to stop you from having fun.
2006-11-29 00:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by kristy-in-the-corner 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married ppl r supposed to have sex. If u don't like the rules then leave the Church
2006-11-29 02:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by booh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the bible says that sex before marraig is a sin. it is called fornication.read 1 corinthians the 6th chapter and the19th-20th verses.yes you are suppose to stop because you're in church.you are suppose to be a light to the world.your boby does not belong to you. you were bought with a price with the blood of jesus christ.
2006-11-29 01:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by the1africanqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he only means that u should wait till your married b4 having sex and god meant that u should be married to have sex and that married couples shouldn't get a devorce theres nothing about that bc once u get married u shouldnt get a devorce u shouldve never got married people these days get married no problem bc everyone gets a devorce and would rather do that then work out any problems...
2006-11-29 00:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by jdmj86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's married, that's sort of expected in a marriage. As for singles abstaining, he just wants you to keep the marriage bed pure.
2006-11-29 00:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋