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Question

I'm 25 years old and still single. All of my friends are getting married, yet I remain unattached. Honestly, I'm intellegent and attractive. I have a decent job and a place of my own. I'm 6', 185lbs, brown hair, blue eyes and I have a voice like Bing Crosby. I'm intellegent, honest, trustworthy and I have an excellent sense of humor.

I won't ask you to change who you are. I don't want you to change who I am. I just want a relationship that will work. I haven't had a lot of time for dating and I just moved to a new town where I don't know a lot of people.

My question--
Where can I meet intellegent and attractive women? I'm not a big drinker, so the bar is out. I also can't dance, so the clubs really aren't the place for me. I don't want to go to church, so please don't suggest it. I'm good at singing, listening, talking and making people laugh. Any suggestions on where I can meet the right girl?

I work in an office with a woman more than twice my age. Other than that, I'm around homebuilders. Meeting girls at work is impracticle. I've also graduated from college, so it will be difficult for me to meet girls there. Still, I thank you for your answers, except Calculator who is a geek.

Answer 1

You can meet a girl anywhere and everywhere... Unfortunately if you want to meet "the right girl" you will have to go through multiple wrong girls to find her and it will take time.

The sad truth to life is there are so many in this world that never do meet that ideal right person (prince or princess charming)and one day refuse to settle for happiness and not some fictional fairy tale. I am a sceptic and I am happy with the Man I am with and he is sensible and romantic... but I know that I love him for his flaws as well as his great sides. You need to learn to take the good with the bad and accept the girl you meet for who she is completely. Only then can you decide who is right and who is wrong.

My mother has a saying for women but it goes for men too..

"All men are assholes, some you can live with and some you cant... you just need to find the right asshole for you"

Just change it from men to women and assholes to bitches and there you have it.

You will eventually, when you are ready, find the one you will decide is right. Remember the 20's are the teens now compared to back when our parents and grandparents met. A lot of people don't marry until their 30s.

Answer 2

Try www.adultfriendfinder.com you can pick your state and city. Make sure that you r specific in what you are looking for to insure the right person is filtered out. There is a monthly fee but u can try ot for a month a see. I tried it because i moved to another state 6 months ago . I found someoneand we ahve been together now for 3 months good luck

Answer 3

It would probably be best to meet a girl wherever it is that you like to hang out because it will be an added bonus that you two share a common interest. Whenever I freeload at Barnes and Noble or wander around the Virgin Megastore at Union Square (I live in NYC), guys always come up to me.

Answer 4

College/University.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Karaoke in a restaunt maybe since you love to sing or find a karaoke club that isn't a bar.
I met my boyfriend on MySpace we clicked right away so maybe online post your intrests & find someone in your area who enjoys the same things.
Sometimes it feels like it will never happen be patient it will when the time is right.

Answer 7

Where to meet the right girl? Gad, that's also what we girls are wondering about-- where do we meet the right guy???
I could suggest you try going to bookstores, coffeshops, bars where you could listen to live bands/ music and simply chill out. The church, I must admit, is also one good place to meet good women-- good meaning decent okay. Anyone who goes to church is, more often than not, a good sign about them. But if you really want the real deal, I think the answer to your question is simple:
Just go to places you like going, places you usually go to. Do not change any routine you already have for yourself. Go to places where YOU want to go to. It may sound pretty simple, not to mention, dumb, but it makes sense. Why? Because you're looking for someone who's right for YOU, right? I suppose that girl is most probably someone who must have the same interests as you do, so why bother going to places you don't really like to go to except for the sole reason of meeting The Right Woman? You go to the places you already do because you like them right? Then more so the possibility of meeting the right woman for you!
Since you're new in town, do some research. Find out the places YOU'RE interested in checking out. Join organizations that you would want to support. In short, to find someone you most probably you'd click with, play around the same circles these types of girls play in as you would as well. UNLESS, you want someone totally different from you (as others may find attractive), then, go ahead! Simply go to the places you'd die to be ever be found in! AS you've said, the places you don't really like going to-- bars, clubs, etc. At the very least, there's the thrill right there! Going to new places.
But in all honesty, if you'd ask me, they say you don't really find the right person for you. They may find you, instead. Well I think that works for women mostly, because in my opinion, guys really should make the first move-- because they're guys for whatever's sake! But lounging around the house all day doesn't make the encounter any quicker so don't even think about staying at home all day. Go out with your new friends! Personally, I've realized, the next best thing to love is, you know what? FRIENDSHIP! It's both loving, just in different ways, you know? What I'm trying to say is, don't force things. Do go out but if at nights you find yourself going home saying, "I haven't found her, darn it!" Give yourself a pat on the back. The fact you've always tried and seized every opportunity that comes your way, is 50% of the job.

And sometimes, we ought to leave things to destiny.

And what I mean about destiny is God's plan for you. It'll come when it's time, you know?
By the way, how about work? The workplace is also a good place to see possible prospects. =)
But hey, as I've said-- take things slow. Work on finding her, yes, but, it's not the only thing to do in the world that's worth experiencing. There's family and friendship too! Not to mention, YOU! Love yourself, dearie. You'll love yourself for it. Take good care of yourself, perhaps when you're busy taking care of other things such as what I've mentioned-- family, friends, yourself-- you never know what might come popping! *wink wink
I just loove good surprises, especially, those kind! haha

Let me know what happens right?
God bless!
P.S. That's from a twenty-two year old girl's point of view ;)

Answer 8

Stop searching... I'm sorry to hear that your life has turned into a search - you should be enjoying your life single or not... the obsession is sad to be honest with you - I'm 28 year old female and extremely happy being single and successful and enjoying my life more than most people I meet.... stop obsessing and start enjoying the life God gave you.

Answer 9

Do what you like to do. That's the key.

If you golf, play lots of golf. If you play tennis, play a lot. Join a club. If you play chess, do that. That's where you'll find like-minded people (men and women) who want to be with people who are like them.

I'm proud of you for not settling. You deserve a good woman. Good luck!

Answer 10

im 20 and my husband is 24 and we met online. I have met a couple guys that ive dated online. We are both very attractive people . Im 5'3 125lbs blue eyes blond hair so you know im not fat and ugly and i met him online. But when its meant to be its meant to be. You need to make friends and go out in groups and pick up girls . that didn't work for me thats why i found joey. bars are just not a good place for girls id never be caught dead in there and your not going to get a good girl. in my opinion its through friends or internet. good luck