almost anything..she has comments that would hurt other people including me and the other members of the family, but she doesn't seem to care..please let me know what to do.
2006-11-28 16:16:44 · 6 answers · asked by warrior is a child 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
listen to me, DEAL WITH IT and love her because when she passes away you will realize how much she loved and helped you
2006-11-28 16:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by tj m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no. 'DEAL WITH IT' is not the right answer. People come to this site because they cant deal with problems. Anyways, I've never been in a situation like this, but maybe try... desperate measures. If she insults you with the same comments over and over, think up the best response you can and slam it down on her, hard. Even if she is your mom, nobody should treat anyone like that. You have to fight back, stand your ground, and if she ever threatens you, hits you or anything like that, then think about pressing charges. Keep in mind the results such as foster homes when you do and make sure it's what you want.
If you want to take a more passive approach. Try and better yourself to make her insults invalid. If she comes up with new ones, counter those. And if you can't, simply say you cant. Better yet, if you cant please her, then why bother! To hell with her opinion :D If you try hard and do well at school and such, you'll have a great life. You just have to stick to it, and eventually you'll be out of the house and into college or a job, away from her.
2006-11-28 16:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by micronoid_aggerate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of i'm a million of the least obsessive/compulsive people interior the international. i do on no account make my mattress, each and every each and every now and then I go away dishes on the table over nite if i'm too drained to do them,I do handwash yet to no longer extra, i'm no longer fussy in any respect. i will drink out of my husbands glass or my youngsters,and that i'm a very calm guy or woman.i've got no ordinary for laundry clothing or flooring, I do them whilst they get grimy.
2016-12-14 08:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is brave enough to say this: "mom, I am about to say something that might cause you to misunderstand me ... it is not meant to hurt you, it is meant to make you aware how some of the things you say/do hurt me/us/some of the family ... do you want to hear it? "
This is a non-threatening opener. You may get some results.
Good luck
2006-11-28 17:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a mom kind of like that she is judge mental . alot
dont do anything to provoke her . and drop a suttle hint that like it is not good for your body to be negitive because of certain health concens like heart attack
2006-11-28 16:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ocd is a disease. go to a doctor and have it diagnosed for real. getting her help will help the whole family
2006-11-28 16:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by coolquackchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋