My Girl friend broke up with her boy friend back in march. Then in August they kind of fooled around a little but now thats has stop. My question is she likes him a lot he is her best friend and she is his best friend and he is a great guy. I asked her why he broke up with her and she told me he said he doent feel that way about her. He told here that he does like her and loves her as a friend and started dateing her to see where things may go but his feeling didnt change enough. I know they fooled around and stuff but he does want to hurt her any more. Any tips that can help her?
I told her stop hanging up with him but she doest want to. She loves doing that any one have any other ideas?
2006-11-28 16:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for starters forget everything this guy is saying. he will continue this regardless of hurting her as long as he is getting some action. he never felt like that about her in the first place. he was only friends with her, but when he found out it could be sexual, he took advantage of the situation. however if she is ha[[y with this, let he keep doin what she is doin. if she wants something more from him, she has to stop seeing him, cos she will only get hurt. also the best friend thing doesnt count any more. the lines have blurred.
2006-11-28 16:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs some time away from him. Right now all she is doing is falling more and more for a man that doesn't feel for her what she feels for him. In the end It can only end badly for your friend. Because eventually he will really get involved with someone else and then it is really going to be a mess. I have been in this situation, it does not end well. Good luck.
2006-11-29 00:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by klpn306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one.....She needs to back off till she sort out her feelings and get control of them....He is being honest with her and she needs to respect that. No more fooling around though..She has too many emotions for that, she feels it's love and he's thinking it's just sex.....Be there for her, no matter how long it takes her to get herself together....
2006-11-29 00:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Bang him, so your friend will be really hacked off.
If you enjoy the sex, that's and added bonus point for you.
Just make it seem like you are helping her out.
It is a win /win situation.
2006-11-29 00:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her, but tell her you'll be here when she makes up her mind who she wants to be with.
2006-11-29 00:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might help but you should ask her about her feelings for him . other wise i think you should try as hard as you can to make her happy
2006-11-29 00:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point let it go. i know she is your friend but she is in love so let them go. just be Thar when she needs you
2006-11-29 00:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋