Okay how do you forgot the past? I don't want to look back. I'm progressing now. I've forgotten and now today I remembered. Years ago my mother accused me of having an affair with my father. Five years have passed and i'm still very angry. How can I forgot her doing this to me? How i can i forgive her? How I can forgot how comfort she made me feel around my father? Now till this day i feel uncomftable around my father. I hate my mother.
2006-11-28 16:12:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why would your mother accuse you of something like this?
What happened that she would say something like this?
If it's all a lie, then she owes you an apology. I don't think that I could ever totally forget something like that. She has damaged the relationship between the two of you. The only way to somewhat fix the problem is for you two to talk about it and find out why she accused you of doing something like this. She should also apologize.
2006-11-28 17:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by duck's attitude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will help but, sometimes you just don't get good parents. I can't believe that your mother would do that. Is this your real dad? What would make her even think that? My daughter was abused by her father and I never blamed her even though he told her that I was jelious of her. I would ask her and she would say no nothing was going on. Maybe you should try and ask her why she would say that to you, maybe you misunderstood? I'm sorry your going through this I think it would be very hard. Your mother is supose to be your best friend and I know me and my daughter are very close and she knows that I am alway on her side but I didn't get along with my mother at all. I try to give my daughter what I never got from my mother. My mother had her own problems and was jelious of anytime I spent with my dad and now I just avoid both of them. You can't change people and sometimes you are better off if you can just move on and don't feel guilty about being happy, ever. I wish you luck and happiness.
2006-11-29 00:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sonja S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Storm, I'm curious, how old are you? It seems your mom has a serious issue that requires professional help. I also believe you require professional help also to help you get past this terrible, terrible thing your mother has accused you of. I hope, if not for yourself now for your future you will look into some sort of help. It really seems your mom is ill and needs severe help and you guidance. Good Luck.
2006-11-29 00:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that going to counselling might be helpful for you. This will give you the chance to talk through how you are feeling and they can help you move on with your life.
You may never forget but hopefully you will be able to leave it in the past and not let it effect your daily life.
I wish you luck and l do hope that you go and find some help.
2006-11-29 00:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by cailieco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can tell you is look inside of your own strength ask her why?? she said it confront her. I was physically and emotionally abused by my mother as a child and until I started asking her and my family WHY why did you do it why did you let it go one why did you not try and help us did I start healing. I am 41 now I still have issues but I find I am closer to MY family my children and I learned how not to do what she did and I have 3 healthy well adjusted children that love me to death. That is now what matters most to me in my life.
2006-11-29 01:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by BRATS MOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my dear gddddd, thats soooo horrible and im soooooooooooooooooo sooo sorry to hear that. has ur mother apologized? and how and waht did seh do to fix teh damage she did? thats really really really bad and i cant belive a mother would ever do that.... its goign to take a lotttt to forgive and if u can.. id say ur pretty close to being a saint!! no doubt... good luck with that
2006-11-29 00:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋