I have been having an emotional affair now with my neighbor for alomost a year. We have text each other and call eachother during the year. Never have we expressed are feelings, we have just talked like good friends, but I know there are feeling there. He even texted me on Thanksgiving to let me know he was thinking of me. Anyway do you think this might lead to a physical affair?
2006-11-28 16:09:22 · 22 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ongoing communication like that will no doubt eventually lead to something physical. I'm sure in your mind by now, and also in his, you are probably imagining what it would be like in a sexual way; which is completely normal.
2006-11-28 16:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an intense whirlwind, emotional affair on the verge of turning into a physical affair. I did the right thing and ended it and it hurt but I'm so glad I did. I learned so much about myself and how amazing I am!!!
2014-10-26 07:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any such issues as an "harmless emotional affair". it particularly is going to very nearly continuously bring about a actual courting. As women human beings we affiliate thoughts and intercourse. in case you're in touch in an emotional affair than you're maximum in all hazard falling in love with somebody else different than your spouse, and have become very related to that man or woman. no longer something solid can come of it, get out jointly as you are able to. i know it particularly is amazingly confusing fairly if this man or woman gives you the attention that your spouse isn't providing you with. attempt to artwork on the courting with your spouse rather of feeding the affair!
2016-10-04 12:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think generally yes, I'm assuming you are married, if you don't want to lose the friendship bring your husband into the friendship. Have them become friends. Safer just to back off though, emotional affairs are still cheating.
If you are not and he is married, back off, home wreckers are the worst kind of low lifes.
2006-11-28 16:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say affair like you would be cheating if you went out with your neighbor. but if not, then go for it! sounds like a good thing. most peole just go for the physical attraction FIRST, but it's good that you guys have an emotional bond too.
2006-11-28 16:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Starry Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once you have the emotional connection.. it is always easier to have the physical connection. I think most of the time the physical affair is the next step. it happens faster than you think!
2006-11-28 16:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read that perhaps "often" is a better word. But certainly not always.
It certainly COULD lead to an affair
..The big question is do you want it to?
It does seem to be trending that way.
..Only you and he can know if this is bad or unwanted.
2006-11-28 16:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let it it will. If you make a move it sounds like it will. Are you or he in another committment? If so think twice, three times before you cheat, it hurts everyone. If you are both single and you want it to happen, then go for it girl, it sounds like he cares.....
2006-11-28 16:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not always, It depends on the people involved and how far they want things to go. It may also be a matter of timing. If it is supposed to happen, when the time is right it will.
2006-11-28 16:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by klpn306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of an affair it would be.... on your part or on his? or just an affair of the heart? that's cute he did that... but would one of you be cheating on someone else? and sometimes they do lead to physical, but not always... it could be just friendly flirting! good luck!
2006-11-28 16:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by monkeybread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋