she tries to have a chat with me on gtalk,but i dnt want to talk to her as i get hurt remembering her, both of us knws that this relationship is not possible coz of her parents,still i love her so much ..cannt get her out of my mind....but why she is trying to have a chat with me? whenever i try to forget her..she gets in contact. why she is doing this?
2006-11-28 15:56:07 · 17 answers · asked by lost_help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some say "if you love them let them go...if they come back it was meant to be" but you see, maybe her parents are "controlling" her...i had the same thing happen to me when i was younger..we both waited until i gradutated and i sat down and talked to my mom...i told her, you always told me to follow my heart, and not let anyone tell me what to do...i love ***** and he is my heart and you can either accept him or not it is your choice.....she and my husband are friends....i was with him for 6 years before we finally got married, i am married to him now and i still feel the love like we just began dating! maybe you should talk to her and find out how she feels!
2006-11-28 16:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, do no longer rush into something you will desire to remorseful approximately. BE comfortable! you have been at the same time for 5 yrs which skill she replaced into sixteen once you began relationship. now 5 yrs later according to probability she needs a destroy, no longer from you, yet from the relationship. undergo in suggestions she spent all her teen years by using your side. and there are issues that she neglected on existence only to be with you. do no longer be selfish, giver her the area she needs, in spite of everything, you love one yet another. and if that's the certainty, she would be waiting to comprehend that certainly you are the single for her, and he or she is the single for you. my suggestion is ...only provide it a relax and a while..if in a while you or her don't experience an identical for the different, then you definately the two would be satisfied you took this brake, to attain that. and in turn if with time you nevertheless experience an identical for the different, then you definately the two would be satisfied you took this brake. as you will discover that's a win/win project. think approximately THAT it is barely MY OPINION, AND ITS based in basic terms on the FEW info AND OR data which you provided. terrific of luck!
2016-10-13 08:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey let me tell you this if you still love her and she is trying to talk to you then maybe she loves you too and if her parents are the problem try to take the 4 of you out to a nice dinner and show them you 2 still love each other and there is nothing they can do to change that but show them and open their eyes and if thats not possible depending on your situations wait till she is legal age and then get back together.
2006-11-28 16:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by just lil ol' me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the reason u broke up because of her parents? Well I would cut all ties if a relationship is not possible. Why cause so much pain to either of you. I don't know the details of the break-up so thats' all I can give on advice. More details would be able to say more.
2006-11-28 16:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she still loves you too, did you ever think of that? YOU broke up with her, so maybe she didn't want to. Unless she is under 18, her parents shouldn't come into this. There is no harm in talking to her, it might ease the pain for both of you to remain friends, and who knows, it might just bring you two back together. Life is too short, be nice, talk and get along.
2006-11-28 15:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is hurting also it seems. Perhaps she has some hope that staying in contact with you even though you ignore her...she hopes you dont forget her...hoping for a miracle everyday...that her parents will change their minds...that you will hope together...keep each other smiling and loving each other. If you have no hope, if you are not trying for a miracle...tell her so...tell her to give up. Tell her that. Peace.
2006-11-28 16:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought it would be obvious that she's still in love with you too. What's going on with her parents? Have they for some reason percieved you to be some little prick who will ruin their daughter the more you're around her?
Your ex needs to tell her folks that YOU'RE the one she wants, no matter what her parents think.
2006-11-28 15:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She isn't doing it to hurt you. She wants to be friends. It's not her fault you're not mature enough to have moved past this after a year.
2006-11-28 15:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just chat with her, don't ignore her! Chances are, she still likes you too!
2006-11-28 15:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's not over you either. if it's a bad situation, you need to tell her to stop contacting you. sometimes it's for the best.
2006-11-28 15:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by suz_e_q_zee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋