My boyfriend is best friends with his ex girlfriend. She has admitted to still loving him and told him that if he dumped me she would date him, that she misses him, wants to prove her love, ect. My boyfriend keeps saying that he doesn't like her like that anymore and that cheating is "stupid", that he would never do that to me. The ex and I have admitted our dislike of one another to the world, which adds to the tension. He hangs out with her often, more than me usually, which bothers me a little. The most recent, and annoying, thing was him dropping all plans with me to go see a movie with her at her house alone. He readily agreed, leaving me stranded. He has recently apologised and swore never to put her first again, but so far I have seen no improvement. I'm not looking to be a friend-nazi and say he can't see her anymore, but should I be worried that he still loves her? Or can I take this as his way to make me jealous and protective?
2006-11-28 15:36:41 · 5 answers · asked by haleyhobert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being friendly with an ex... that's ok... but to be friends with an ex is a train wreck. There's billions of people on this planet, so he can be friends with plenty of people other than his ex. Put your foot down and don't tolerate this behavior. Save your tolerance for more harmless behavior.
2006-11-28 15:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 22:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to deal with this is to not deal with it. Meaning.... don't allow him to treat u like the back burner chick. and not to mention, ole girl had her chance, and its over. now its your turn, and she is ruining it for your relationship. And how dare he ditch u to be with her??? he will only do to u what u allow to happen, and if the girl can weasel her way in, she will do it, and u cant let her get away with that. She has no fear of consequence, and that is the most powerful thing that she can have, and you need to take that away from her.... if he still entertains her, leave his ***!!!!!
2006-11-28 16:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by shaylolo51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him now!
that is silly. She has proffessed an enduring desire to be with him and yet he spends an evening with her watching a movie at her house (alone? REALLY?) when you and him already had plans. Don't let yourself be played like that.
2006-11-28 15:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess, but it usually ends up being friend with benefits
2006-11-28 15:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋