Hi there, I am an Asian guy, 22, and pursuing my MS in one of the best schools in US. I am single, never dates and feels very lonely sometimes. I always had a dream of marrying a white girl - maybe because they are so beautiful or...i don't know, but i can do anything to get married to a loving and caring white girl. But i have never got the opportunity to talk to a white girl? Or, i should say i tried but could not succeed. I want to know what could be the reason? Is it because i am an Asian and brown-complexioned. Or white girls do not want to go around with guys from any other culture. Please tell me what should i do? Do i stand a chance or is it that my dream will never come true?
2006-11-28 15:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps it is because "white girls" can sense your immaturity. Since when does true love have a color. You should love who you love their skin color shouldnt matter.
2006-11-28 15:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're asking out girls who are also in college and they just don't have the time to date. While I admit that there is prejudice in America, there is not a culture of everyone singling out Asians as a group to be against.
2006-11-28 23:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with your race or even your appearance. i have an asian friend who married a white girl. and my brother, who is hispanic married a white girl. so it's not that. it's just normal not to have luck with certain girls. maybe the girls you've tried to hook up with aren't into inter-racial relationships. but there are still plenty out there that are. keep trying. and when you least expect it will, she'll be there.
2006-11-28 23:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trying too hard,just relax,white ladies do not have the same devotion that other cultures have and that's why i was looking for Spanish and ended up with someone from Pakistan,and yes there is a culture difference.most young white women as you say are into money,you can buy plenty.forget your culture and just be yourself.if i was looking for someone i would go to the Internet to a clean dating site and they will match you up with thousands.my pakistan step son whom is grown treats women like crap and will not date his race because they would not put up with him.
2006-11-28 23:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by m.w.meredith@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on your school work but try concentrating a little less it has nothing to do with your backround just be yourself and the right women will come along (she doesnt neccasarly have to be white)
2006-11-28 23:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad, it's not so bad, ur just a poet and didn't knowit.
2006-11-28 23:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋