Girls do you expect the guys to make the first move or what
i don't think it matters but i might need to make the first move on this one
2006-11-28 15:34:12 · 18 answers · asked by I need an Unbreakable ♥! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE WORLD NEEDS MORE GIRLS LIKE YOU!!!!!!! IT WOULD MAKE IT A WHOLE LOT EASIER ON YOU AND HIM (MOST GUYS GET NERVOUS AND SWEATY. not really a huge plus
2006-11-28 15:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society has always expected man to lead the way. And for so long man has bravely face the rejections of the lady.
Trust me on this one,,,, if all men knew what the odds were going to be when they approach a woman or attempt to make an advanced move, he would do so with confidence.
And women are not any different than men. If every girl knew the outcome of approaching a guy she would be making the first move as well.
So do you dare be like one of the fellows? Build up enough courage to approach the guy without knowing what the outcome is going to be?
You stand a 50/50 chance - Go ahead try it. Let us know how it worked out.
2006-11-28 23:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that guys do like it when girls make the first move, but it's up 2 the girl. In most cases, if u do make the first move, the guys might think that ur easy. And that's not a good title for anyone
2006-11-28 23:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by misstye07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and I know that it's traditional for the guy to make a first move. However, if you think that the other guy likes you, even a bit, most will actually be quite ecstatic that you made a move on them. Make it a verbal move though - you can seem like a tramp if you start making physical moves before you've even professed your fondness for him.
2006-11-28 23:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by jsprplc2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, I would really appreciate it if the woman made the first move and expressed her interest in me - assuming I was feeling it too. I'm a good, emotionally mature man and yet I still find myself a little tongue-tied around a woman I like. If she would express that same interest to me, that would eliminate two of my fears: 1) fear of being rejected if I expressed my interest, and 2) fear of losing any kind of relationship or friendship with her. I would very much like it if she took the first move. Here's a little secret - men want to be wanted too.
2006-11-28 23:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody likes it when they don't have the pressure of the first move! If he is shy then you making the first move will probably be a huge turn on once that ice is broken!
2006-11-28 23:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by David K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure girls have more feeling than boys in this matter so always fact is that girls make the first move but boys will be the perfect finisher
2006-11-28 23:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by kidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First move by girls is like a godsend for guys. Plus it gives the guy a better sense that you like him and will get rid of insecurity.
2006-11-28 23:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mike L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl AND the guy. Guys with low self-esteem are threatened by assertive girls. Secure guys love it. If the girl is not very attractive, well that speaks for itself.
2006-11-28 23:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I at least like to know they're interested, that way I don't exchange the noble order of things for mayhem induced hystyria.
2006-11-28 23:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesssss!!1 i think it is totally cool and hot when girls make the first move. then i knkow what she is comfortable with.
2006-11-28 23:48:39 · answer #11 · answered by cschultz66701 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋