After 8 months, I saw the ex...?

Question

After 8 months, I saw my ex boyfriend at the university campus that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me, he was smiling and looking deeply into my eyes, he kept asking me all these questions. I kinda seemed annoyed. At the end of the conversation, he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. He was the one who dumped me 8 months ago. HE was the one who dumped me. But he would still say hi to me on msn but he doesn’t say hi that much anymore.We never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. Since that day on school, he hasn’t tried to contact me, even on msn just to say hi, so does that mean that all his happiness & “let’s see a movie” was fake? I would NEVER ask him out, but do u think he will ever ask me to hang out with him?

I said hi to him on msn 5 days after we bumped into each other just so he knew that I'm not bitter haha. Is it possible that he could kinda like me and really wanna hang out but is waiting or am I just being fooled?

Also I acted annoyed when I saw him and I didn't ask him any questions, he was doing most of the talking.

Answer 1

Just go out with him for a day. Dont worry too much. You guys are still friends, rite?

Answer 2

Let it go. Reconnecting with exes is, more often than not, a bad idea. He's your ex for a reason, remember. There are plenty of other guys out there who will treat you right and not act all shady about stuff. And if you do want to be friends with him (and you think you can actually handle being friends) then if he asks again, say something like, sure, why not this (insert day you're available)?

Good luck, and props on the saving sex for marriage...you may get laughed at or teased, but it will REALLY be worth it. Sex is about making two people one, and when it's not done under the right circumstances, it can hurt you really badly.

Answer 3

How long were you guys dating for? I'm a guy...and I ended a relationship with my girl after 4 years of dating. I felt TERRIBLE. No joke. It tore me up inside. Mostly because she was a really nice girl - but I just didn't feel the physical attraction that I did before, and I wanted to try being with other people. But anyway, my point is, your ex-boyfriend - by being nice and asking you to hang out - might not necessarily be implying that he wants to get back together or rekindle anything...he might feel like crap for ending things and would feel better about HIMSELF by being all nice and whatever. If I ran into my ex, I'd behave the same way...not because I want to get back together with her, but because making peace sort of bring closure. Will he ever want to actually hang out? Who knows! But if he offers - don't be too fast to think it's him attempting to get back with you...he might just want to chill out and try the whole friendship thing.

Answer 4

you never know...could be taken both ways...i think he dumped you because his he couldn't controll his urges and didn't want to jeapordize your "chasity" but if you have hard feelings towards him then don't hang out with him...if you have good feelings for him then just see if he wants to go to a game, or movie, or a light dinner...who knows...he could be your prince charming?
good luck on your decision.

Answer 5

it was fake. it's easier for a guy to say...."omg! how are you? it's so nice to see you. let's do something together sometime. call me. keep in touch" then to say....."i didn't mean to bump into you, so instead of seeming like the bad guy i'm gonna keep walking and pretend i didn't see you"

Answer 6

Yea, I think its fake just because he probably didn't know what to do when he saw you. Just brush it off.

Answer 7

hey he is theone who dumped you for someone who did what you wouldnt ....ya he will ask you again but be smart move on ....hes only out for what your not putting out.....understand

Answer 8

Only time will tell.