2006-11-28 15:24:45 · 16 answers · asked by chubey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to say no. At 15 you have far too many possibilities ahead of you that will be missed opportunities. At some point you will grow restless and wish that you had experienced more of life before entering into a committed relationship. When that happens you won't be the only one who gets hurt.
Whoever is expecting you to become committed to them needs to reconsider...and allow you to live your teen years without chains, especially long distance chains.
2006-11-28 15:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get all involved with somebody -- and they are way far from you -- all kinds of stuff happens to your mind. You are just 15. Trust is an issue we all have trouble with, even adults. When your heart is all 100% with the person, you can't think of anything else, you get depressed, then you know you have a problem. You are way too young to be in a relationship like this, cause you just can't handle it. Please. Just be friends. You can love the person as a friend, and nothing more. If you get all wrapped up in this, you will get hurt. And you know this. Eighth grade? You aren't even in high school yet!!! Remain friends for now. The love you have for her will be there but just tone it down a bit. That way when she hits high school and prob meet some other guy, you will be ready. If you are all 100% love now, you are bound to get hurt. I don't want that for you. You are still growing up inside to be a man and you need to remain in a good way. That's why some kids kill themselves because of a busted romance or they are so scared the person will leave they do stupid stuff. Don't do that. Just love her as a friend for now. You will feel better, the depressed feeling you have now will disappear and you can have a clear brain that can think. Right now you can't do anything as you are 100%--and it's not good to have this at your age. OK?
2016-03-29 15:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 15 yr old girl may be willing to commit long distance and I know I was when i was 15 but ill let you know right know thats just not a good idea. I was too young and didn't know what i wanted and every other 15 yr old isn't mature enough to know what they want. I would say that a ldr shouldn't happen at that time. but to keep it friends and in the future if the feeling were still there at 18 or 19 to persue it. You gotta let a kid be a kid
2006-11-28 15:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so here is the deal! I am not going to tell you that no it cant happen some time it can happen, i will tell you though that i wouldn't get involved in a serious relationship that young...one you and the girl still have a long life ahead of you! don't try to grow up too fast , because once you enter adult hood there is no going back. the choice is your but the choices you make effect your whole life! and if this girl and you really like each other that much then it will always be there and you can always make something more of it later when you are older i would say be teenagers first then worry about love and growning up later!
2006-11-28 15:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think a 25 yr girl can commit to a long distance relationship.
2006-11-28 15:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to meet and spend time together and meet each others family. All you know is what you can find out by long distance. Alot of people can lie by long distance. You need a little more time together before committing. You got your whole life ahead of you....don't screw it up by jumping the gun on a quick hunch.
2006-11-28 15:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by chocoholic_40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A fiften year old girl should not be commiting to anything. that is just crazy. She's basically a child and just barely starting to experience life. She should be having fun and exploring the world and figuring out exactly what to do with her life.
2006-11-28 15:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was almost 16 when my best friend of 5 years, and I got together. He was in Fl, and I was in Ohio. We dated for 2 years until I was 18, then moved in together. We are now engaged. It takes a lot of work, he is deaf so no phone for us. Just internet. It was very hard and we have been through a lot, but it was so worth it. Goodluck!
2006-11-28 15:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't matter if they lived right next door to you. No 15 year old is ready to commit to anything, you are a child, whether you want to hear that or not. Go ride your bike.
2006-11-28 15:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her maturity level is up there, sure. I did it with this one guy for a year when I was 15. I was commited until we broke up.
2006-11-28 15:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋