so basically me and ma girlfriend started sneakin over to eachothers houses late at night about a coupla months ago... the only problem is is that we got caught.... (btw there was no sex ... she and i jus like to spend time together) ...after about a coupla days my parents came to there own little conclusion that my gf was comin over for sex and thats all shes ever wanted... and they barely know her ... the problem now is that they dont want her to come over again and dont want to see her ... i really like this girl... me and her know how have a good time...we can talk bout anythin ... and we both are truly in love with eachother... what do you think i should do ... should i walk away because my parents think shes nothin but a hor (mispelled on purpose) or should i keep strivin for someone i love
2006-11-28 15:22:47 · 9 answers · asked by shogun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The brave thing works best!
On your own- in a calm and quiet way.
Together stand in front of the parents (both) sets and talk to them FRANK AND CLEAR.
Mom and Dad- We are not having sex.
I would like to spend time together at our homes where we are safe. Can we hang out here?
Your rules apply! I bet they will.
2006-11-28 15:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be obedient to ur parents but at the same time try to make them realize that she is not a hor if you did not want sex what was the reason to see at NIGHT anyways couldn't you spend time with her during the day
2006-11-28 23:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they are your parents and you do live with them. They rule over you right now, and sadly that means they rule over who you date too.
Maybe you can tell your parents that she is respectable. You could talk to them in a mature convesation. That usually helps.
If nothing else, stick it out for someone you care about if she's willing to wait for things to settle down too. If she's not willing to wait/sneak/whatever you plan on doing, then she's not worth your time.
And over time your feelings may change for her. So dont commit yourself to anything permanentally.
2006-11-28 23:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Awex Is The Master of Insanity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont walk away!!! this is what happened to me when i was 15. i was going out with this guy 5 years older than me and my family found out. i was banned from seeing him. we were so in love so we decided to fight them and we did. they eventually realised we genuinely love each other and it smoothed over.
we are still together and its been nearly 4 years. dont split up because of other people. if you truly love her fight for her like i did.
Good luck!
2006-11-28 23:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bella>Beautician 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are living under your parents roof, sounds like you must listen and follow their rules.
2006-11-28 23:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya parents arent datin her. and sometimes u just got to do what is best for u. try to keep it on the down low till things blow over..with ya parents
2006-11-28 23:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow everyone's advise. They are all saying pretty much the same thing.
2006-11-28 23:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally first loves never last...but just sit your parents down and let them know how you feel
2006-11-28 23:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her....keep her.....
2006-11-28 23:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋