GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP
2006-11-28 15:05:37 · 7 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't need to keep reposting the same thing
2006-11-28 15:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a find women to be intimidating on the social front. he feels like you shot him down laugh at him then felt bad after it all. but if you explain he may understand or maybe he's moved on. you may have even crushed his little heart if he felt the same way. at new years he wanted only you an worked him self up enough courage to overcome his social anxiety to get off his nervous *** and talk to you. i can get the same way esp if baked and often make an *** of myself hence the anxiety next time. just let him know what really happened and how you feel.
2006-11-28 23:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of texting him....call him up and ask him if he wants to hang out some time. something you muttally enjoy like a movie or bowling or gaming.
Make some new common ground with him. Talk with him about something you are passionate about that you at least think he doesnt hate.
Show interest in him....but dont scream it...just subtely show interest.
2006-11-29 02:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by aarondarling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hesitant from the sounds of it, you should ask him out since you like him. Try not to let your nerves get the best of you just relax and be yourself. If he approached you at one time then he has an attraction to you just remember that and enjoy your time with him. We often let our head get in the way of our hearts, just follow your heart and know whatever will be will be.
-NmD!
2006-11-28 23:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that you're both not being honest with yourselves. Go for coffee or something without booze involved, get a good feeling for whether you are really still into one another. Be casual , have fun.
2006-11-28 23:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mark T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it all seem very complicated. Why not simplify things & just ask him out, & try to talk things over with him.
2006-11-28 23:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya! Ask him out, he'll love it. No guy doesn't appreciate getting asked out. I promise!
2006-11-28 23:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by heelsunc32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋