my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him years ago .because some of hes wotless friends, who tryed it on me and got rejected. made up some storys to him sayin that they new people that had slept with me to get back at me.
he has never completly got over or believed me because of what they said.
how do i show him im not a cheater and hes mates are pricks.
so things can be perfect again
2006-11-28 15:01:54 · 21 answers · asked by tyshy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are out with him. Confront his mates in front of him. Say "Tell me what lies you are saying about me, now that we are both here together"!
2006-11-28 16:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. that is not a cheat... You are a cheater when you diving in penalty box to get the attention from referee so you gain a penalty in a final minutes of a football match.
2006-11-28 15:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by kharix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he'll believe you over his friends. If he doesn't, that's a sign that HE has cheated himself, so finds it hard to trust you. If I were you, I'd break up with him if he doesn't believe you because trust is the most important thing in a relationship.
2006-11-28 15:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once confidence is lost it is difficult to restore.It is not wise to depend on doubting people.There is no assurance that he will not be carried away by words of his friends in future also.You have saved yourselves once.Better look for reliable relations.You live only once.Depend on the dependable.
2006-11-28 15:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were you thinking at the time the guys tried it on with you ?
How could you get into that kind of situation ?
Do you think flirting is ok ?
If you believed in monogamy, why did you go into a situation with another guy ? and why more than once ?
So stupid!
2006-11-28 18:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by m c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean, but please use spell check.
As for your guy, if he hasn't learned to trust you because of something that happened years ago, he's not going to. Move on. A relationship is worthless without trust and if after several years he doesn't feel like he can give that to you...there's not really any hope for your relationship.
2006-11-28 15:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it was me a wouldnt do anything.....If he takes the word of his best mate what does he think of you in the first place? Your worth more!!
2006-11-28 15:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is going to think what he thinks. You can't prove otherwise anyway. But come on...you cheated didn't you?...just a little?
2006-11-28 15:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Maz69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God this is so stupid. 3 Q not linked one after another.... do you think we're stupid mate? Thanx for the points though!
2006-11-28 19:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what his friend did, you did NOT cheat, and that you should not have to explain yourself anymore. Relationships are built on TRUST!
2006-11-28 15:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋