this is really serious so please i dont have time for dumb remarks ok me and my boyfriend wants to move out and llive on our owm but its hard becuase we have to buy a new car and a home he wants to get a second job to get a car first but this will jepordize our relationship what do you think:?
2006-11-28 15:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by labonitameli 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are correct. Money stresses will tear you apart and paying rent and a car payment are not cheap. Even with 2 jobs for him and one for you it's going to be tight. Do the math, look at rents, look at utilities, food, transporation, entertainment. It ain't cheap to live.
2006-11-28 15:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just remember...stay strong...the only way a relationship will be jepordized is due to you letting it...it will be hard, trust me. There will be times that you will run into a lot of problems...but if you and your boyfriend take time and have conversations (not arguements) over what is troubling and then you both can make it work....you may need to get a job to help him out..remember it takes 2 people to make it in this world...and also...try to work same hours as him GOOD LUCK AND TAKE CARE!
2006-11-28 23:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a new car and a home to start living together. Stay with what you can afford or the relationship is over before it even starts. Statistically, the number 1 reason for relationships ending is financial problems. Get it together financially before getting together physically okay?
2006-11-28 23:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should buy a reliable used car (which would be much cheaper) and save up for a new house or rent to buy (which is usually cheaper). If you don't have to move, wait and save. That is what me and my boyfriend are doing now. Other than that , he would have to work two jobs and I would never see him.
2006-11-28 23:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will this jeprodize your relationship? granted he will be working alot and be stressed out perhaps but if you two really love eachother it won't matter. Maybe you should consider getting a job at the same place you work? Weird I know but it works for some people.
2006-11-28 23:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you two? If you're old enough to have full time jobs, then get to work to earn some money and get out on your own. If you are still in school, then finish school first and then make your move.
2006-11-28 23:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t see how working to get to where you want to be can jeopardize your relationship. Just take one step at a time...it won`t happen overnight, have some Patience and Perseverance!
2006-11-28 23:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO MAKE SACRFICES IF HE IS WILLIN TO TAKE A SECOND JOB THEN YOU SHOULD BE THANKFUL HE ISNT WILLING TO PUT YOU TWO IN A SITUATION YOU CANT HANDLE.
LET HIM TAKE THE JOB FOR A SHORT TIME ANDSEE WHAT HAPPENS I BET IT WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BTTER YOULL SEE
GOODLUCK
2006-11-28 23:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by angie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋