OK.. HERE'S THE DEAL.. IM LYK SOO IN LOVE WITH THIS AND EVERYTHING HAS BEEN GOING FINE UNTIL TODAY WHEN HE JUST STARTS ACTIN ALL WEIRD AS IN EXCESSIVELY TALKING ABOUT SEX.. NOW WE NEVER DID IT. AND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND IM PRETTY SURE HE LOVES ME BUT.. IM SO AFRAID THT IF I SLEEP WITH HIM HE'LL JUST LEAVE.. I'VE ASKED HIM ABOUT IT AND HE SAYS THT HE'D NEVER DO THAT TO ME .... BUT ITS HARD TO TRUST GUYS NOWADAYS.. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2006-11-28 14:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Ja.Leah.Shuh. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bottom line to a very long dissertation is DON'T DO IT ,,,, You didn't mention your age or age bracket but I'm assuming that you are in your teens ,,,,,that doesn't matter because this advice could fit anyone ,,,,, You have your whole life ahead of you ,,,,If I'm right and you are in your teens then you aren't in a position to handle the problem that can arrise from this ,,,, There are allot of red flags here ,,,, One of them is that you are a challenge to any guy ,,,,,, you have something they want and most likely after they score they will move on to another target ,,,, Don't submit yourself to being anyones play thing ,,,, Any guy that wants you for that has no respect for you at all ,,,, To them you are only warm and have a pulse ,,,, Guys your age aren't near ready or mature enough to settle down with just one girl at this point in their lives ,,,, Think long and hard and from all the angles where this is concerned ,,,, Use your head ,,,, don't let them use your body ,,,,,
2006-11-28 18:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how long have you been together, there is a difference between infatuation and love. Also, are you really ready for sex? And, if he really does love you he will stick around and wait. It is not worth it to have sex simply to keep a guy. Sex is not, or shouldn't be, an instrument for manipulation. If he leaves you because you won't sleep with him, it isn't real love.
2006-11-28 23:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by who said that? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you keep your legs closed until "YOU" are ready to give it up. You said it yourself: I M SO AFRAID THT IF I SLEEP WITH HIM HE'LL JUST LEAVE.. Never give it up just to keep a man. If he truly cares about you, he will wait until you are ready.
Not trying to discourage you, but think seriously about this. I've often heard it said that for every person you have sex with, you are having sex with each and every one they've had sex with, and each one they've been with, and so on.
When it comes to sex, think of yourself. NOT HIM!!
2006-11-28 23:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's about patience.... if you feel like you can't trust him enough right now make him wait.... just to see how long he'll wait.... if it's long enough you'll know that he's not the type of guy 2 leave you but if he can't wait then he'll leave and at least he won't be able to say to his friends "I got some and dumped her."
2006-11-28 23:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by msntrprtdation1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not comfortable dont sleep with him.
Also, if a guy is one who would leave you coz u slept with him, then he's really not worth keeping.. he needs to grow up!
2006-11-28 23:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't sleep with him
do not do it.
he wouldn't mind doing it but after that thing will like funny between you 2.
u can only do it if u r bf and gf
if not don't do it
2006-11-28 23:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
U goin have to weigh your options. Do u have anything to lose if u do? Do u have anything to lose if u dont? Trust your instincts.
2006-11-28 23:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better dont. If you guys break up one day, you would feel so stupid n used. If he mention about sex, tell him that your not intrested. thats all.
2006-11-28 22:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
. . . . . Uh, i say you better not. . .
2006-11-28 23:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋