aight, i am thinking this girl likes me in one of my classes and i really like her and thinking of asking her out tomorow.
i think she flirts wit me cause she tends to touch me on the shoulder when she talks to me sometimes. idk is that i sign she likes me maybe?
Anyway i am a little nervous cause i do have a litte stomach. i mean nothing huge, most people would say im not skinny but im not even close to fat.
Is a little tummy a turnoff for girls? its not like ai stick it out with extra small size shirts.
Thanks!
2006-11-28 14:54:49 · 13 answers · asked by actdlr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I assure you, you have nothing to worry about. Stomachs are not a turn-off to most girls, especially in this day and age, typically. If, however, she doesn't want you because of the tiny bit of pudge you may or may not have, she doesn't deserve you. Do not waste your time molding yourself into what she wants. If she likes you back, she'll like you for your personality and charm; she won't care about your stomach.
With Love,
~~Naomi
2006-11-28 14:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by lighted_crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl (for both questions).
I'd work more on your confidence than on worrying about the stomach. Don't worry about you, and if you go out focus the conversation onto her.
Also, for asking her out, it might be easier if you invite her to a casual activity versus just "out". Like bowling or paintball or lunch...or something else you both might like doing (but not a movie). And if she turns you down, ask if there would be a better time. If she says no, at least it was less ackward for her. And if she says yes, at the very least you have something to build from (friendship and/or dating).
2006-11-28 15:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. Girls like guys who have something we can hold on to. If its the way you say it is and it shouldn't be a problem. And plus, if the girl like you the way you are now, then its no need to worry.
Don't worry though, it is NOT a turn off.
2006-11-28 14:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Nice Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think girls care as much about a guy's weight as they do their own. Before you go to the full on date, I would start with something simple like coffee, and if she says yes she probably likes you.
2006-11-28 14:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Vae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it right, it can be very nice (from my perspective). ***BUT*** You can NOT do only this. It has to be in a series of kisses/licks for it to be effective. Also, do not slobber in the belly button or anywhere for that matter.
2016-03-29 15:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry! go out with her! She like you ! She wont mind about your tummy. she's intrested with your personality! Good luck!
2006-11-28 14:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. She wouldn't be flirting with you if she didn't like how you looked. Go for it. Good luck
2006-11-28 14:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it and ask her out. IT's what's on the inside that counts, not outside. I she rejects you, move on, it means you could do better!
2006-11-28 14:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A GUY WITH A LITTLE MEAT ON HIS BONES IS A BIG TURN ON FOR ME
WHO WANTS TO BE WITH A STICK???
JUST MAKE SURE YOUR A LITTLE BUFF
2006-11-28 14:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by angie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda a turnoff but if this girl is worth it, she will like you for you!
2006-11-28 14:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by veeo3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋