I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and have not had sex with him yet (personal reasons) however, he does masturbate and i have come to realize that for a while now, he hasent been ejaculating as much as he used to. its a significant drop in the amount. he says hes not cheating on me, and when he pleasures himself, i ask if he had done so earlier also, which could be the reason for a drop in the amount of seamen but he says no, he only does it with me. im having a hard time dealing with this because its worrying me. im not used to a change like this for no reason. can anyone help? opinions? thoughts? thank you
2006-11-28 14:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by J J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do lend a helping hand, but still...
2006-11-29 06:11:52 · update #1
Contrary to popular belief, you can't tell how much someone is having sex by how much they ejaculate (this does not count for having sex eight times in one day) Could just be that he hasn't been drinking as many fluids, or exercising more, or eating less. Is he on a diet, or started a new exercise routine? There are lots of variables. I wouldn't base my opinion on just that...having said that, if you find some undies that aren't yours or his, you may want to have a conversation.
2006-11-28 15:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by mel_23_ashmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he's probably jacking in some piece of trailer trash down the road. Just to make sure, collect every drop of his next offering in some warm wet private place and analyze it carefully for taste and consistency as well as quantity. Then ask yourself what a man would see in a woman who's so insecure, demanding and critical that she'd read anything into a harmless biological variable like quantity of ejaculate. Work on being a nicer, more gracious, more forgiving girlfriend and you won't have to worry about him cheating. (This isn't as harsh as it sounds, I think it's kind of cute of you really.) Good luck.
2006-11-28 23:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by David W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating on you but he most likely sick of not getting the real thing. A helping hand can change that but it still does not take the place of the real thing. If you are both under age or one of you are run from this horse play until you are 18.
2006-11-28 23:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it a big deal unless you can prove he's cheating. If you trust him, believe him. Have a serious talk with him.
2006-11-28 22:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, what?!?
He masterbates in front of you...and you measure his ***?
And you're worried about a drop in the amount?!?!
Are you serious??
Stop worrying!!
Oh geez....
2006-11-28 22:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by trina_weena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋