I have been dating this guy for about a month now, but he is ExTREMELY shy! I know he likes me, and wants to do these things, he is just too scared. i've had to be the one to do the handholding and hugging, but should i wait and let him be the one to make the move and kiss me? I have no problem waiting a little while, or letting him make the move, i'm just afraid that if i leave it up to him it will never happen - not because he doesn't want to - but because he is too shy. advice? anyone?
2006-11-28 14:54:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel like doing something, than do it. We men love that and wish it would happen more often. Once he sees you want what he wants he'll be less afraid to make the first move too!
2006-11-28 14:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yopu can kiss him , but he may expect that from now on. I'm guessing he remebers he kissed you and since you havent initiated a kiss back he may feel you disapproved of it originaly. Not to be a jerk but he sounds loserish - find a guiy not afraid to make a move, or train this guy to be more confident.
2016-03-29 15:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should make the move once and then wait for him to make the next move b/c he needs to do something instead of sittin back and lettin time fly by ur in this relationship together and by now he should've been able to loosen up and not be shy around u...wat kind of relationship would that be
2006-11-28 15:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by eazybreezy103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without much notice, give him a gentle smooch and a smile...it's ok to initiate...most guys (the shy kind or others) dig that! Then a little later...simply ask him what he thought of that. Have fun...
2006-11-28 14:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by answerb4midnight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a move then he will have the confident to do the same
2006-11-28 14:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age!
2006-11-28 14:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by rudee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd kiss him.....but then i'm not patient!
2006-11-28 15:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋