ok so today in school, this kid in homeroom wuz like "hey", i wuz like "hi?" (i like this sk8er alot) i mean he wears tight pants! lol!! anyway i told him he wuz sexy and he said sexy as in hot or you wanna do things with me??? i wuz thinking "how do i answer that?" So i didnt answer and he wuz like "would you give me a b l o w j o b? and i like him and said yes cuz i thought it ...well i didnt no what it wuz but im only12... how am i supposed to no???? so now he iss pressuring me to do that and i would but i dont wanna get in trouble.... he wantz to do it @ school!!! in the bathrrom!!!!! he even told me that he wuz (H O R N Y)!!!! and i dunno perverted guyz turn me on for sum reason..... ANY ADVICE?????
2006-11-28 14:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by Sk8erlvrprep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First- most schools have serious consequences for this type of behavior. Can you imagine having to tell your parents why you got kicked out of school? Second- If he is the same age as you, he is probably more talk than anything.
Third-YOU are responsible for your body. Your body is your treasure and not anyone else's. God created you, He created sex (Including blowjobs), and He created sex for marriage. You are the only person who can give your treasure away and would you really want to give it someone who is wanting you to break the rules at school? If he wants you to break the rules at school, what else will he ask you to do later on? Being Horny does not mean that it is the right thing to do. Horny is a physical response or chemical reaction that your body has to the words he says and the tightness in his pants. Horny is not what you should listen to. Use your head and think, "Is this boy someone I would marry when I'm grown? Is this boy all talk? Is this boy a good guy? Do I want the consequences of doing what he wants to do?
ON A Scary note, True story- I know someone who gave a ******* to a guy and she got a sexually transmitted disease in her mouth. The disease scarred her mouth on the inside and on the outside on her cheeks!!! If this boy is getting blowjobs from other people (if he is not all talk, he is probably is), do you want to risk getting a disease in your mouth? Love yourself enough to tell that boy NO!
2006-11-28 14:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off. If you do, you do not have any respect for yourself, because he is just going to get his jollies from you. Think of what your father might say if he knew that you were going to do that. You are 12 and just to let you know that oral sex, is sex, why do you think that it has sex, after the oral part. You are 12 and to young for what he wants you to do. Here is another thing to think about, if he is asking you to do this, do you know if he has herpies or not, because you can get a std from doing that, and when you get to the dating part of your life, in a few yrs you can tell the guy, you are with and really like, that you have an std and you got it when you were 12 from a kid that did not have a interest in you other than to get his jollies from you. Think before you do, because it just might come back to haunt you in the future.
2006-11-28 14:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell this guy to get a life. i really hope that you dont do anything like that to n e 1 during school age years because i remember when people would do that they would get made fun of for being a wh ore and stuff liek that.it really helps your reputation if you dont n e way lol. people may act like you are the only one "not doing stuff liek that" but realyl not that many ppl are. go with your gut. it usualy tells you the right things to do.
2006-11-28 14:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly your bf is clearly abusive or an fool. He has no agency having sex with a fifteen-12 months-previous lady! It relies upon on age of consent on your state some are 14 and some are 18. no matter if the sex change into illegeal no accessible make you habve an abortion.
2016-10-07 22:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by genthner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i can totally connect! im 12 also! yes i have been pressured the same as you so u aint alone!! just remember, he can do that but u will lose ur virginity even with a c o n d o m and if it breaks u can get preg and im sure u dont want that!! so just tell him to either stick as friends or to hook up but wait for sex till marrige. OOOOR!! you know wat, my friend told me this:
"I'll have sex with him but he first has to walk me down an isle and put a ring on this finger." its tight and u can tell him that OOOOR!!!
"OK! that sounds cool but lets try a room not a bathroom i need you to tell my dad, im sure he would give us a room!"
trust me they always work! *wink wink*
2006-11-28 14:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, sweety, im 15, and im being pressured into stuff like that too, and you gotta be in control enough to say "no." tell him hes a ******* asshole for trying to ruin your friendship just so he can get some. and if he keeps doing it, i highly suggest telling a councelor. it is sexual harrassment, and that kid shouldn't be getting away with it. please make the right decision and say no...you're only 12...you've got plenty of time in the future to do that mmk?
2006-11-28 15:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY THATS NOT KOOL!! im 13 so i know how you feel when i was 12 this guy asked me out and was begging me to kiss him and he asked if he could get into my bed!!! i said ok cause i thought he was joking. but we didnt do anything. but you can go to the councelors right does your school have them? well if it doesnt go to a teacher because that is sexual harassment and teachers HAVE to do somthing about it if a student tells them about it or they hear about it. its the law and all you have to do is tell a teacher or councelor, i know its hard trust me this guy didnt want to get busy withme but was making inappropriate signs @ me and i told my mom and she told me that she wanted me to go to my councelor andshe would come with me.
2006-11-28 14:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by lauranakf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!! You are legally not old enough to give consent to do any sexual act. The boy is just trying to get a BJ. Your hormones are raging... it's normal, but you can't be doing that, girl!
2006-11-28 14:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u sound like u dont know much about sex so stay clear of it. bein 12 sucks but u could be doin other things. sex is suppose to be fun and not knowin about sex and doin it is not a good thing
2006-11-28 14:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should just not go blow him because 1 he sounds like a jackass 2 i think u can find someone else
2006-11-28 14:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by saintsrow0021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋