ok...so...I call back this guy who asked me out. We set up a date for tomorrow night. He called me tonight and told me that he won't be a ble to make it so he wants to re-schedule.
I'm really not that into him. I accepted the invitation because I'm kind of bored.
is it ok if I don't call him back?...he seems really sweet and makes me feel bad to blow him off like this.
But at the same time i was only planning to go out with him this one time.
2006-11-28 13:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so why were you only planning on going out with him one time? you are not even giving this guy a chance, im kind of wondering why? but if you really have your mind set on only going out with him once then i don't think you should call him back. what really gets me though is you feel bad for not calling him back, but not for only giving him half the chance he may deserve. sorry to say but you might be missing out on a good thing.
2006-11-28 13:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least call him back to let him know that you got his message about tomorrow night. You don't really want to screw with your 'dating karma' - what you put out there will come back to you someday and in someway, so be kind. If you were interested enough to say yes the first time - try to make plans for another time - you just never know! What have you got to lose? Getting together for a coffee only takes an hour or so.
Good Luck!
2006-11-28 21:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by ms_know_it_all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was nice enough to ask you out. I think you owe him the courtesy of being honest. It may hurt, but it would hurt more to let him think that you're interested.
2006-11-28 21:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think u should call me .just wait until u guys have yall 1st date and tell him whats up. and be like i think we should be friends.
2006-11-28 21:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would not call him back even if you are bored . because he may really think that this is going someplace and you already know its not
2006-11-28 21:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok not to call him back. he canceled on you anyway. first date, bad sign.
2006-11-28 21:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b i t c h. you shouldn't play with people like that.
2006-11-28 21:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋