one day. She says she needs time for herself. We still talk, but its killin me. I know i love her, but i dont know if she is telling the truth, or kinda gently breaking up with me. we're both 22
2006-11-28 13:36:04 · 16 answers · asked by yep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run, and run fast ... and don't look back. Be so god damn thankful that you're 22, and don't waste time feeling bad. If she is this young and there are already issues causing her to "need time to herself" in your relationship, it will not somehow get better in time. I know that saying good bye to somebody you love hurts, but wasting your best years in something not destined to work will hurt so much more down the road ... just trust me on this one.
2006-11-29 13:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Headshot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to have kids and get married but just not with you. She finds you annoying. I know you like her alot but you shouldn't keep going on facebook looking her up try doing something really romantic and win her over like that she's a girl that likes to have space from people too so don't keep on at her girls hate guys that are in there face all the time.
2016-03-29 14:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always that chance your girlfriend could be breaking up with you, but I think it is more that she wants space for a little just to ensure that you are the one she wants to marry. Marriage is a huge decision. I do not think she would tell you all this if she were "gently breaking up" with you. Often times, spending time apart makes you appreciate another person more and I hope she finds this with you.
2006-11-28 13:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being with someone is supposed to be fulfilling not dragging you down. Maybe she is just not ready for it right now. Does she not have time for herself with you, i mean, do you let her do things or are you "suffocating" her? Being in a relationship is great but you have to be careful not to lose yourself, you have to do things individually as well.
I can`t say what the reason was or if she lied or what, just rethink the relationship and try to figure out what went wrong. If you can`t find anything, move on, don`t wait for life to pass you buy.
2006-11-28 13:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Roxie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man my girl left me a year ago and im pretty sure that she was still true while i lived in Ca. and she lived in Wa. Now while i was a away i did the the things that would make myself the better man i went to college and tool weight lifting and welding. At the end of that year visits every couple of months i still loved her and she i . only now iwas a srtraight a student with a career at hand i got my welding cert. And to boot worked so hard in my weight lifting class i was the strongest in it. So what im saying man is youll know if she just wants you to get it together or the other not so pleasant ending.GOOD LUCK man.
2006-11-28 13:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by ocnnk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You start your post with "my girlfriend and i broke up" then say later you don't know if she is "gently breaking up with you"
So you've broke up but not?
Let her go...people do sometimes need time to themselves, but that's not a reason to end a romantic relationship OR put it on hold...
Move on to someone who knows what they want and won't string you along...
2006-11-28 13:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're broken up, what does that prove.
Have an honest one on one conversation with the lady. Tell her your feelings, and see what she has to say in return. If she looks away or doesn't give you full eye contact, hate to break it to you hun, but love doesn't always last forever
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-28 13:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
boy, me an my bf discuss a situation like that. he said some time in the future he'll need his space before he settles down with me. I believe him but when that time comes i do no intend to sit around moping but enjoyin myself. Think about it as ur last fling befor u settle down and if she doesn't get back with you, don't sweat it, i'm sure u wuld've met alot more ppl an it wouldn't be that bad. that's my plan anyways
2006-11-28 13:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her sometime. Sometimes people just need time to think and realize what they have. She's obviously making sure being with you is a good choice. She just wants to make sure you're the right one, that's all. Be patient! Good luck.
2006-11-28 13:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by tia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u know what i cant stand peepz like that. stop talkn 2 her. let her know u arent a door mat. actually honey ignore her, i know u love her but its time 2 make her think about things and that she cant just come and go as she pleases.
2006-11-28 13:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋