ok im 14 and i dont want to be like my mom she got married at 14 then she had a kid at 16 then 17 and i want to have a kid at 17 or 18 b/c im tired of waiting and i want to be young for my kid but should i slow down but thats going to be hard for me and i do need help but i cant go to my parents and my friends are like its ur like but idk ..........
2006-11-28 13:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Being 20 something is soooo great. Especially being 20 something with no kids. You can date as many people are you like. You will be fresh out of college with a budding career and money to spend on yourself. Take trips out of town with your girlfriends and dont worry about a sitter! Its the life! Dont miss it! You have the rest of your life to be a mom! Once you have a kid, you are that kids mom for life. Have some YOUNG GIRL FUN!
2006-11-28 13:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by vanity planning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by you`re tired of waiting? You`re tired of waiting to have a baby? Do you think it`s all cute and no work? Can you even support a child? Buy him everything he needs, give him your youth?
You are out of your mind. Did your mom not tell you how difficult it was for her when she did it? What was it like for her? Maybe you should ask and get some straight answers.
2006-11-28 21:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 14/15 year old is NOT a suitable mother. Trust me, if you have a baby when you're 25, you'll be plentty young. Having a baby at your age is one of the stupidest things you can do right now.
2006-11-28 21:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by jsprplc2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO WAIT, your still a baby yourself. you can't take care of a baby now. At 14 you should be thinking about finishing school and going to college. taking care of a child is a big responsibility and if you have one now , your parents are the ones that will be taking care of it , you can't even get a job at your age. please wait and enjoy your teenage years have fun with friends and wait until your older and you can afford to have a child.
2006-11-29 02:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you are still a child your self - go and enjoy life and later you will be thankful. I was 26 when I had my one child and I was very happy to me a mom at that age. Oh.. now I am 37 and expecting.
2006-11-28 21:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you out of school. You will be so glad you did. Your too young to be having a child.... finish school and get your life going before you get another life going... Be patient!!
2006-11-28 21:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Indymom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should wait get your schooling in first and then you can think on how would you do any of this what if your man leave how would you take care of them be a great mom and not part time one.
2006-11-28 21:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until 21 then u can have babys but first u need a boy friend
2006-11-28 21:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only morons have kids before they're 30. That make sense to you, peanut brains? Or is your egg sack bigger than your head??
2006-11-28 21:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chill out!!! Get a puppy or something, don't have a kid, please don't have a kid.
2006-11-28 21:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋