2006-11-28 13:13:20 · 25 answers · asked by a143shane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's a false dichotomy.
the two questions are totally unrelated. you're setting up your own roadblocks with goofball navel-gazing like that.
get off the computer, get outside, get some exercise and some endorphins going, then stop in at a coffee shop or a bookstore or a record store or wherever and smile at a cute guy. see what happens.
2006-11-28 13:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing you are unique. there is not another you in the world. to thine own self be true.you need to find some good friends and go bowling and get involved helping others.im sure that people love you and you must be depressed right now. meet some new friends and get to know other people. usually when you feel alienated, thats because you have shut yourself off from others. dont go around with a sad face all the time. put on a smile and you will find that smiles attract more people than frowns.be a friend to have friends. go for walks and stop and smell the roses. be thankful for everyday that you live and have good health. go to church and get involved with youth groups or activities and soon you will feel like are loved and worth something.
2006-11-28 13:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE of 'self' is...
Different from Love of 'others' toward you.
These are two different things. Do not mix them.
YOU 'MUST' LOVE YOURSELF!
To love yourself, there is no condition.
You are 'part' of nature and 'Nature' is Very Beautiful, so you are Beautiful...
The Nature has 'life' and flighting for this 'life' as you LOVE your LIFE and must protect t from all kind of illness and dangers.
SO, you already has fallen in 'LOVE' with yourself, because you take care of 'yourself'!
NOW,
WHY other they don't love you! It is their 'mental problems', NOT your problem.
I LOVE you, and all these people who answered your Question are Loving you and taking care of YOU by putting their times.
SO...
So... Dear... Your Generalization is NOT correct at all, and I am sure that many people around you they LOVE YOU TOO!
2006-11-28 13:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, self esteem can't be based on the opinions of others. Second of all, lack of "self-love" is probably deceiving you into believing that others don't love you. Eventually, people may avoid you or anyone who wallows in self-pity. The thing about a pity party is that if there is more than one person there, the others are there against their will!
2006-11-28 13:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by mrtoddanson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We Love You
2006-11-28 13:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by I-Like-Chicha&Ceviche 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you know nobody loves you? My kids love me and my parents love me, but no one else does. Even so, I still don't love myself. I guess that is something we all have to work at.
2006-11-28 13:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by johannacass@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself first. Confidence works wonders. If people see that you like who you are, they will like you to. You have to possess qualities that you want to find in a mate or friend before you find someone with the qualities you want.
2006-11-28 13:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Just Amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning, its impossible for no longer a single guy or woman to love you. nicely.. till your a serial toddler murderer.. lol. no count number who you're, somebody accessible loves you. the substantial to loving your self is calling that one guy or woman.. (or 2 of three =) Have them inform you each and every and all the reliable characteristics approximately you that they have observed. regardless of if its one or 2, its consistently something incredibly reliable. people are the final at examining people =) question.. how did you get your 'e's' like that for the duration of your call?? Thats superb! lol
2016-12-14 08:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before anyone can love you, you have to love yourself.
2006-11-28 13:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by shantiqua_99 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Consider the many benefits of singlehood. You don't have to answer to anyone but yourself; you can devote all your time to your commitments, hobbies, and friends; and you don't have to worry about being attractive to one person. Be happy with your independence. It's worked for me.
2006-11-28 13:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋