my son is 9 1/2 months old and will only sit up on his own for a few minuets if that and he really does not like to play with toys that long either.i dont know what else to do and im scared there might be something wrong with him .he doesnt eat much and he only gained a pound in a half in 3 months .help me please i need advise.im waiting on an infants and toddlers program leader to evaluate him but it just seems like forever to get an answer.please leave your thoughts and advise for me.
2006-11-28 12:49:11 · 8 answers · asked by jlgrag01 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
You are definitely doing the right thing by involving Early Intervention for your son. It sounds like he could have a developmental delay. I'd seek out a Developmental Pediactrician; as they can refer you to different specialists if it's necessary.
Just to warn you; if it turns out that your son is delayed; it may be a while before he's oficially diagnosed with anything. My daughter has Cerebral Palsy. And even though it was most likely evident to her Neurologist when she was only a year old, they don't like to diagnose things too early b/c babies/toddler's change so much in that time. My daughter wasn't diagnosed until she was 27 months old, and she is now 4. Recently, her Cerebral Palsy classification was changed b/c she does not present like she did 2 years ago. I'm telling you this b/c I know how incredibly difficult it is to wait for answers and to hear "it's too soon to tell". But the doctors really won't be lying when they tell you that, in fact, it really IS too soon to tell. I won't tell you not to worry though, it's impossible. Just know you truly are doing THE BEST thing for your son by having him evaluated. My daughter was born premature (15 weeks early) and began Early Intervention services as soon as she came home from the hospital (3 months later). I can say without a doubt that EI services made a TREMENDOUS difference in her development.
If you need support, please consider joining the following on-line support group for parents of children with disabilities and special needs: www.specialparent.org Please know you are not alone. GOOD LUCK with your son.
2006-12-01 20:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Marie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be anything to fear. I once thought my son was slow too and then all of a sudden everything started going so fast, but you got to remember how much babies really are learning in such a little time let alone trying to adjust to the outside world. Your doctor will let you know for sure but I've always been told all babies learn at different rates.
Theres this excellent book called what to expect the first year and the toddler years and it basically tells you where your child is physically and psychologically. Its pretty good and resourceful.
I hope that helps and that all is well with your baby.
2006-11-28 12:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the things that I would suggest is making sure that he takes the movemnet part of life to a new stage, this can be done with parental help. What it seems like is that your child could have a situation where he or she will be lethargic for long periods of time or only comes out of a lethargic state for a few minutes. Is there any medication involved that would give these side effects? Possibly the only thing that is keeping his or her from developing into an interesting and interested individual is that he or she find something that can keep them interested, make sure you try many differant things to bring your child out of his or her shell. What does the child do when it is not interested by something or eating?
Good luck!
2006-11-28 12:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by agelesschimp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong. But you will have to fight with your Peditrician to prove it. Look into a Developmental Pediatriacs in your area. They can help also. It takes time to get into these things but once you do they will help you. Trust me I know I am still fighting for my son. Just Pray and things will work out. You can also look up lists online and they will tell you what he should be doing by now and you will be able to give more direct feedback to the doctors once you get into a program. Also keep track of every First thing he does. That will be important in Interviews.
2006-11-28 23:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by L P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine's granddaughter was doing nothing appropriate for her age. Her daughter was very neurotic and when the doctor said to make sure the baby slept on her back, well she NEVER put the baby on her stomach. He said that it is coming to be a common problem, the babies are developing are not normally because their activity is restricted.
The baby went to physical therapy for about 4 months and caught up.
2006-11-28 12:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by starting over 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely get a hold of your pediatrician.Maybe he lacks muscle control...maybe he has no interest in sitting up. My grandparents worried about my mom, because she would not crawl. But much to their surprise, she stood up and walked at about 9 1/2 months old.
His weight gain, may be attributed to genetics, BUT it would seem to me like he should be gaining more weight than that!
2006-11-28 12:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no one can really how long it's
going to take for a kid to things.
all little kids are different. Because
i have a niece who's 9 months and she's
already walking. and another one who when
she was that age she couldn't even
sit up. i dont really think you have
anything to worry about.
2006-11-28 12:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your pediatrician? That would be my first step.
2006-11-28 12:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Empress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋