I have been seeing this guy for three months now but he seems to be loosing interest in me, he almost never calls me and he hardly ever asks me out, he talks in front of my about his plans for the weekend but never asks me to join him. The thing is that this is the third guy in a row that this happens with, I mean they start interested but then they stop showing interest, I feel like I´m the one doing something wrong, and I´m really sad about it because I thought that with this guy we would really hit it off but I feel like am loosing him and I don´t know what to do about it, I don´t sleep with them so it can´t be that , he´s not married, or shy or seeing anyone else, so what can I do to renew his interest, to make him come around more often? If I loose this guy I´ll be so dissapointed because I really thought things with him would be different but they´re begining to fade. I´m a really shy girl so I think maybe my shyness is the problem here.So please help me with some advice!
2006-11-28 12:48:04 · 5 answers · asked by jc pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i had the same problem. when i tolg a guy i wouldnt kiss him yet and he asked at a very bad time dad, grandpa, mom, sis and his sis were there. but any way, i was shy and it didnt work out and i was soooo sad for the longest time but if hes not asking you to do stuff ask HIM to do stuff. and if he dosent want to at all than just dump him. :D srry thats my best advice. :D:D:D:D
2006-11-28 12:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by lauranakf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By seeing this guy u talk about for 3 months I
don't think you have that much of a shy problem
I think it is more of an high expectation of re-
actions of men towards you, and when it does
not happen then you get disappointed. Remem-
ber where there are three men that disappoint-
ed you there will be 5, 6, 7, who knows how
many more. Don't put your expectations on
such a high level for when they disappoint you
you will not feel as bad. Remember when the
right time comes along you will find the one that
is compatabile for you and that does not come
in numbers, that comes in time, so give it time
and you will find the right one for you, better
you be disapointed in its early stage , than
when you really have a long relationship.
2006-11-28 13:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably right with the shyness...but obviously you have him so that cant be completely the problem. i think you should sit him down and talk to him about it...or just chill out and give him some room...maybe he's confused right now and might need some breathing room.
2006-11-28 12:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by manderz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say something to him and try to push in on his weekend plans,e.g wow I would love to do that can I come with you?Or you plan something and ask him to join in,try to be involved in things together.If it does not work then its time to move on,you do th dumping don't wait for him to.that will help you not feel rejected
2006-11-28 12:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Along road to hoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he want sex dont give it to him until ur married
2006-11-28 12:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋