Im in love with a girl that has a bf!?

Question

okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do? what other signs should i be looking for? i need answersandplentyofem

also whenever we talk she is very close to me meaning like a foot away and her eyes never leave me, when we talk, our eyes are locked on each other nothing else around us... sign? what??

Answer 1

straight out with it, tell her what you think and feel, just tell her to leave her boyfriend, straight up with it, its better to know early than just waste your time.

Answer 2

OK so here is the deal u should ask her inadvertently if she likes u maybe with something like "if u didn't have a bf would u date me" then if she says no shes just being nice to you if she says yes then tell her how you feel be aware that this will change realationship 4 ever

Answer 3

Aww...that's such a sad story.But I still know you have a chance on her.I think that she's only with the guy to make you jealous or something so you can make the first step.But I'm in the same situation like you but of course with a guy :P

Answer 4

Simple. first and foremost, before getting your head involved way too much. You should talk to her, mention in a conversation how weird it would be if you guys were going out? or mention how if you wanted a girlfriend, she' would be like her? drop a hint, see if she picks on it. And if she doesn't don't waste your time on a girl whose in a relationship. It's only gonna end in drama. And anything turning into drama isn't worth it now is it??

Answer 5

well from a girls point of view she must like you and have feelings for you 'cause shes not just going to try to be around you if she doesn't like you, i'm a junior in high school and if i like a boy i am totally going to try to be around and also flirt with them thats the only way to show your interested in them so maybe she does like you just ask her you never know or get a close friend mainly a gurl that talks to her and tell your friend to ask her how she feels about you

Answer 6

For your situation it might be difficult. You can force the guy to leave her this very wrong and won't work out. The best thing is forget about the be friend who now she might end up her relationship with her boy friend anytime if they have understanding. So wait for right time. If you can't look for another that have similar personalities with hers.

Answer 7

DONT KISS HER , Dont make a single move until like you get really close like enough where you think is appropiate maybe this girl's just playing with you ... you know there is some bad girls out there, dont follow he game and look closely into it " God does everything for a reason."

Answer 8

Well, maybe they'll break up soon and you can make a move. Or maybe she will. She seems interested in you. The boyfriend will probably get pi ssed off with her flirting.

Answer 9

Be thoughtful of the boyfreinds feelings too before anything happens because what goes around comes around.

Answer 10

if she looks at you and smiles then look down to the floor or something. she defiantly in love with you. now you should do that to her. call her to talk about nothing. just be yourself. even if it embarrass you. just do it. if it all blows up in your face (I dout it) just look for someone else. there maybe no one else but her but atleast you tried. and tell her how you feel. I know it sound totally lame but girls love guys that share there feelings.

Answer 11

Another sign might be if she grabs your penis, but that could mean many things so don't be too presumptuous if that happens.. Wait for more clear signs.