Should I pretend to be dumb?
2006-11-28 12:41:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think people who pretend anything probably have trouble having lasting relationships.
2006-11-28 12:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Certainly, people who listen are more popular than people who try and dominate others. I am of the second category, and I wish it was otherwise because no body believes just one person has the answer to
everything. If you find yourself being one way or the other, try evening the score up. Some friends will want you do listen, and other will want to do the leading..
So be alert and learn to ask a simple question. "What do you think or feel about this event or that idea or experience, or how is this event similar to this other event or something like that." People love to find others that will listen to them at times.
2006-11-28 20:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't depend to have a level of intelligence that you don't. Nobody likes a fake. People who pretend to be smart tend to fail miserably. People who try to hide their intelligence for whatever reason aren't even worth it. (That's not to say that it should be shoved into the other person's face, but it shouldn't be kept totally under wraps, either.)
2006-11-28 21:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say pretend?, smart people don't have the time to look for love it has to hit them while they are busy walking down the street.
2006-11-28 20:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not fake intelligence but you may be able to fake being smart - a SMART AR$E that is.........
Why on earth would you want to pretend to be smart. Why not be yourself it might help in finding love!!
Are you a DUMB AR$E faking it as a SMART AR$E??
Good luck to you buddy....
2006-11-28 20:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by bvbw81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pretend to be smart or dumb. Just behave according to your own intelligence.
2006-11-28 20:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cassi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the key here is to not "pretend" ANYTHING. Being yourself will help you find the right person for you. My dad always told me Honesty is the number 1 character-building characteristic a person can have.
2006-11-28 20:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Christine4tw 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If some one has to pretend to be smart, they probably aren't that smart when it comes to love anyway.
2006-11-28 20:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by armywifehaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretending to be something you aren't is never a good idea and no, don't play dumb...just be yourself.
2006-11-28 20:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by Yours Truly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only happens for the "smart" people because they're really stupid but they don't want to show that to other people.
No you shouldn't act dumb, just act like how you are acting now, as long as it's not annoying.
2006-11-28 20:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Shanana 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋