well i had this sort of boyfriend for awhile it was kinda long distnace but he started putting less and less effort in as it went along. ireally loved himt ho, ive never felt love like that. weve finally broke contact, he moved up north after a fight we had and said he didnt wanna worry about anyone down here...so i stopped calling and its been 2 weeks. i keep havin dreams about him tho one was really vivid he was kissing me and i was saying i missed hima nd he said me too..and then he was like i have a gf tho, her name is somethin, and i was like are u lieing and he said yes i said why and he said cuz i dont want to be together...we cant right now. what should i think about that? i dont think ive ever felt love this deep. i had it bad for him and its just not going away, i dont want anyone else but him..
2006-11-28 12:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i call him again, or shoudl i wait till its been like a month? or give up totaly?
2006-11-28 12:51:57 · update #1
I wouldn't read too far into your dream because our minds tend to make up things on previous events and how we are feeling. You could try calling him again and talking it out with him. It's possible that he may feel the same way about you but isn't comfortable with it and doesn't know what to do about it and as a result is distancing himself from you. But then again, it may be unrequited love. I really couldn't tell you, but you should try calling him to see if he meant what he said or if he just said it in the heat of the moment. Good Luck!
2006-11-28 12:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Quentin's Mommy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't believe me, but you will get over this. It will take time, but you will! And mark my words one day you will fall in love and look back on this and realize you never even loved him as much as you thought. Just hang in there, spend a lot of time with your friends, keep busy, and try to let him go. It will be difficult, but it will pass.
2006-11-28 20:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just going to take you some time to get over him. Just take your time before you start dating anyone else, but make sure you don't go back to him. Don't even contact him at all. That is best.
2006-11-28 20:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can tell.
2006-11-28 20:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋