In the past i have been used by guys and so i have stayed away from them and keep them as friends. now a guy has asked me out, to know each other, and i don't know what to do. should i trust him or not??? how you had any situation like that if so tell???
2006-11-28 12:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every woman has jerks in her past and I am no exception. When I met my husband, I was a very hurt person. Early on, though, I made a conscience decision to not make him pay for all the jerks in my past. Trust him until he gives you a reason to not trust HIM. Would you like it if guys treated you according to their past relationships with girls who jerked them around?
Just don't jump into something too fast, it really is better to take it slowly and one day at a time. Don't invest all of yourself in him--continue to have your life-your friends--your dreams and if it doesn't work out you still got you. Good luck!!
2006-11-28 12:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by BookLady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth, with your past experience I don't think you could place down 100% trust in them but you shouldn't shelter yourself from them forever. It's alright to stand up straight once you have fallen. You should give life a chance and give yourself a chance as well, but don't give in too easily cos you may end up getting hurt again.
2006-11-28 12:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. respect yourself. as long as you respect yourslef he will to.
And you have no choice but to trust or your life is just not going to be worth it. If you are afraid of the date, bring 20 bucks for a cab ride if the date goes south, or ask a friend to be on call. it will be fine good luck.
2006-11-28 12:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are no longer dumb. men are no longer liars. some each and every physique is dumb and a few each and every physique is liars. some men are gamers and take care of girls like crap. they provide men a foul call some women are sluts and have not any appreciate for them selves. they provide women a foul call. There something which you're no longer telling s sir, did you flirt along with her after your lady chum instructed you to stop? What are you leaving out sir? Do you have a historical past of this kinda factor????
2016-10-04 12:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you keep guys who use you as friends? Good strategy! If you dont want to get used, keep your clothes on for a long time...if they stick around after 7-8 years, they are a keeper...
2006-11-28 12:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends which guy you are talking about... As to being able to tell, does he have lots of friends? If so, you can ask one of them...
2006-11-28 12:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can trust a guy if he isnt a total dush bag. If you know what I mean. Go ahead you should be fine:)
2006-11-28 12:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it aint an exact science but you have to try to choose well first...you can definitely trust a guy, but not all as with anything...
2006-11-28 12:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by rhmn_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know him first, once you get to know him...you will probably know what the answer is.
2006-11-28 12:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope none like that
2006-11-28 12:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋