There is this boy that I think likes me and I like him but he already has a girlfriend. But he usually flirts with me on the bus or in homeroom. Should I tell him I like him because then his girlfriend might get mad at me but it's not my fault he flirts with me. And anyways, if he doesn't like me, then thats ok.
2006-11-28 12:33:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't tell him you like him until something happens in their relationship. Such as them breaking up. He may be more attractive to you because you know he's taken and should be forbidden territory. If he's flirting with you it doesn't sound like he's got much respect for his girlfriend. And remember if he's flirting behind his girlfriends' back, one day you could be the girlfriend that he's doing it to...if they break up go for it; all's fair in love and war!
2006-11-28 12:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by holdengal81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you should tell him you like him because you should look at it in the other perspective, what if you were with a guy who was flirting with another girl and found out she told him that she liked him. What exactly would you do? wouldn't you feel a little uneasy, it's not worth it to go after someone who is taken, if he breaks up with her and then tells you he likes you it's a whole different story.
2006-11-28 20:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by I answer ur questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not a big deal that he may not like you anyway, then just don't say anything. You don't want to come between their realtionship. He may decide to break up with her one day, and then you will get your chance. If you make him a cheater, he'll just do the exact same thing to you when someone else comes along that he wants to flirt with. I would just wait my turn. Meanwhile, you may meet a great guy who is single and totally into you.
2006-11-28 20:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong with you telling a guy you like them even if they have a girlfriend. But ask yourself this. If he would flirt with you while he is dating her then would he do the same to you if the shoe where on the other foot. Becareful.
2006-11-28 20:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP FLIRTING WITH HIM !!!! tell him you dont like the way he acts toward you!!!!! put yourself in her shoes, would you like someone flirting with your boyfriend????? I DONT THINK SO!
2006-11-28 20:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by KITTY CAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Talk to him, and find out if he likes you, just dont make it really obvouis because she could get mad and thats the last thing you want lol.
2006-11-28 20:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Gibbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt u shouldnt get into others peooles business and you'll mess everything up
2006-11-28 20:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmm, just talk to him. Have fun, life is short...
2006-11-28 20:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by john r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋