How do you get a girl thats taken?

Question

Ok, I like this girl and she likes me(she told me) but she has a boyfriend, i dont know how serious it is, but it must not be too serious because she flirts with me all the time, he lives in a town thats like 50 miles away and she says that he doesnt come to visit her much, I think i need to make a move to help her get over her bf because i like her ALOT i mean i think about her every 5 seconds, and its driving me crazy, if i dont make or break soon im gonna go crazy!(By the way hes 18 and she turned 15 last summer, and im 16, dont u think thats weird that shes going out with some1 that old?)

Answer 1

Although this may sound weird...you sound like a really nice guy...your best bet is to spend the most amount of time you can with her...treat her like a princess...make her want to be with you...do little things for her that she can do for herself...like getting her a drink and always making sure she's comfortable...bring her a coffee if she likes that...etc...talk to her...about anything...especially if she is interested in the topic...you can talk about her boyfriend too...right off...so that it doesn't interfere too much with your relationship...try to understand where she is coming from...she's young and may give in to your charms...hope this helps...good luck

Answer 2

All women have boyfriends. They are terrified of not being in a relationship because their personal status is so dependent on being desirable. But, the fact that she has a boyfriend means next to nothing. Most of those "boyfriends" are disposable placeholders. Women regularly replace them once a "real" relationship comes along. Also, they freely cheat on these guys. Most women with "boyfriends" are actually completely available....both for a relationship and for casual sex. Almost all women will tell you differently. But almost all women act in this manner at all times. Not saying they are lying. But, there is a huge disconnect between what they say and what they do.

Be very careful of women who live with men or who are married. Many of these women are just like what I described above. However, the men are of a different opinion. If they catch you, they are liable to do anything, up to and including killing you (this is the most common cause of murder in the western world). Look, but don't touch.

Answer 3

umm first off u can't that's why ppl who r in a relationship say they're taken. Think about it if she's flirting with u while in a realtion ship then she'll do the same if u actually can get her. No I don't think they're age is weird at all actually but I don't think it's the best idea in the world but I'm going 2 be turning 13 this December and my bf is turning 15 Jaunary so I can't say anything.

Answer 4

Well, she can't do any monkey business with this guy he can be put in jail for rape. As for this relationship, it WONT last too long. I know this because my brother is 18 and his ex was 15 ( a year younger than me) he liked her and all but he broke it off because he got bored with just kissing. If it's meant to be, then she will come to you when the time is right. I hope you find what you're looking for!

Answer 5

It's a trap.

If you got her, it would be fun for awhile, but then she would eventually flirt with other guys when she is with you. Look at a person's character. Don't think that because she would see something different in you that with you it would be different. Her character is someone who has no problem flirting with other guys when she is taken. Maybe you like that or don't mind that because you aren't that serious about dating her or you just want a causal fun time. I don't think you should settle for that though.

Answer 6

Next time she says she likes you, follow the script:
Her: "If I didn't have a bf i'd go out with you"
You(pimp): "Prove it"
Her: "How?"
You(pimp): "Dump him and go out with me"

OR
Her: "No, hahahaha"
You(pimp): "That's what I thought, you're actually all talk."

Note that you don't have to say it 100% like this, just follow the general idea. I wouldn't recommend even hanging around her if she doesn't give you anything other than flirting, coldly freeze her out (don't see her, answer her calls, or call her at all). Don't act mad, just act like you're disinterested.

She will melt on you like hot pudding. (You can e-mail me @ [e-mail] when she does =)

Answer 7

first of all not really cua girls like older guys, some bull about how more mature they are, but face it it'z cuz usually they have some cash and a car, second go for it trust me its a ***** later on when u think of what would of happen if u just did.

Answer 8

When the other guy is front of the girl, push the guy,Go in front of the girl as fast as you can, and kiss her.(If you want to so bad.)Or just pull her away.Or just ask her if she likes you.If she says no then just kiss her!!!

Answer 9

You don't