Lol...sounds like a dumb question..but im just not sure...like we hug n cuddle soo much at school (like our faces are literally a couple CM apart) but ive yet to go in for the kiss...do I just look at her n when she looks at me go in for the kisss? or should i say sumtin like "how bout a kiss?" when we're cuddlin on a bench somewhere in da skool..
2006-11-28 12:30:39 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you look at her straight in the eyes, make sure there is a silent moment, then you move your head in just a bit, she should come in the other part of the way.
2006-11-28 12:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you guys are talking seriously (or romantically) and the conversation starts to dwindle, just look at her in the eyes until she is caught in your gaze. Then, put your hand on her face (MUST) and pull her in for the kiss (closing your eyes as you do so, so she'll know what exactlly you are trying to do). It's better to do it while walking. Just sorta lean into her (her back against a wall of course) with your hands either on her hips or with one propped on the wall right above her shoulder. If you've never kissed her before, try kissing on the cheek first, and on the next date she might get serious and pull you into a kiss.
When you first kiss her on the lips, do NOT put your tongue in her mouth. When she pulls away, she'll probably want to get kissed again (and she'll indicate it) and then that 2nd time, you can French. Have fun =]
2006-11-28 12:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Akane Tendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sweet. If you guys are at the cuddling, looking deeply into each other's eyes, then don't ask. Just lean in and do it. But move in slowly, so she has a chance to get what you're doing and doesn't turn her face at the last moment (unless she doesn't want to be kissed or something, in which case, you might want to take it slower in the future).
Good luck!
2006-11-28 12:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww, i am 13 and i am a girl, i have watch chick flicks and love stories and horror movies as well, and i have had a kiss too. you should hug her then if the moment is right you look into her her eyes and ease really slowly and if she moves towards you, then don't stop and go for it!! give her a peck first then, if you guys go onhead and do it again go for it all!! BUT DO NOT RUSH IT!!! Now, if yiu guys r talking mushy mush to each other ask if it is okay if she would like a kiss!! I think that would work..
2006-11-28 12:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it at school. You'll probably get in trouble like I did..only I didn't even GET a kiss. The principal just assumed...What a turd!
Go somewhere quiet sometime..a park or your backyard. When you're talking...or when one of you is just getting ready to leave...lean in for a kiss. If she doesn't back away...give her a soft kiss...nothing too strong. You don't want to scare her.
2006-11-28 12:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask for it, just pull her close, lean in and kiss the girl. But do it in private since she will remember the first kiss from you the whole time you date. But dont be nevouse, she is with you because she likes to be with you, and she probabley wants this kiss as much or more than you do.
2006-11-28 12:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well going in for the kiss might not be such a good idea unless you get the "look" :) that makes you comfortable and gives you the ok just without the words.....then go ahead and do it ...Asking could be good to but probably in the privacy of you guys own space without anyone around because you never know the outcome of that.... Goodluck... it's fun...sometimes it gets interesting....;-)
2006-11-28 12:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by M!$$ $uP3r$t@R!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be doing that at school. See if you could meet her somewhere or go on a date with her.
One of the sweetest things a guy said to me once was, "You know what?" And I looked up at him and asked, "What?" And he said so sweetly, "I think we should kiss." My knees buckled and I thought it was the most romantic thing he could've done at that moment.
2006-11-28 12:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Kiss Questions are not dumb. I was nervous with my first kiss. So here it goes: when you're "cuddling" on the bench. Just go for it. We're (Girls) are just as nervous as you are. So just go ahead and break the ice!
2006-11-28 12:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either Look her in the eyes wait for her to look back, then go into kiss her and see if she leans into it, My bet is she will, then just go for it... or exactly what you said ..Hey how about a kiss would be perfect!~
2006-11-28 12:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋