They've been spending alot more time together, and everytime we are at school and he sees her he goes out of his way to say hi and give her a hug...It's strange. I don't know I could be over reacting, but it bothers me. He's been really stressed out lately as well. Like he hasn't slept right. And today instead of coming over to my place like he usually does, he and her went out and got pizza. I was so confused. Like, he still hasn't called. The one time we went to go to themovies together, I had to stop off at her place to drop off a movie, and then when we got to her place He asked her to come. This would have been fine if it hadn't been a date. For me and him. Ahh! Okay I'm so over reacting....HELP!
2006-11-28 12:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by XicutinSumFun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he mite have a lil crush on her. But that doesnt mean stop talking 2 him. I suggest that you bring it up 2 him and see what he says. Just tell him that you've noticed strange activity and would like 2 know if he finds her attractive. Look him in the eyes 2 see wheather hes lying or not and go from there.
2006-11-28 12:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are NOT OVERREACTING!-If he is your boyfriend then he has NO Business going with your friend-any girl- alone and without You to have Pizza.Why is he going out of his way to give YOUR girlfriend a hug?-likes her as a boy likes a girl. Usually when your gut tells you something is not quite right it isn't.Called Intuition. In a OK relationship where all is as it should be there is no suspicion. Call her and him on it-Do Not ask fior its just too obvious whats going on and you are being played by your boyfriend and your girlfriend----a true friend would have set him straight the first time he went over to her to hug her---Bells and whistles going off-this is not OK by him or her. If I were you I'd turn them both OFF wouldn't even talk about it to either of them for what he and her are doing is so dishonorable does not even deserve being addressed. I'd just get on with life-and if you see them together at school-A definite certainty-and its hard and you start tearing up-remind yourself of the dishonor done to you and pass them by and do not honor with a glance but shrugh them off with indifference. Besides they have both shown total lack of any principles,character and how could you ever trust either one again. Wish you joy in your life
2006-11-28 12:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't even matter if he is interested in your friend. The fact of the matter is ,.... there is a lack of trust in your relationship and no relationship can grow without trust. Walk away and find some self esteem and only date guys you can trust so you won't have to ask questions like this in the future
2006-11-28 12:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tracey T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the experience that your boyfriend is interested on your pal, then you definitely favor to get a clean boyfriend... when you're absolutely appearing out of lack of self belief, then, you want to confirm the clarification why you experience this form and paintings on your self. sturdy success.
2016-11-27 20:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just being friendly and really likes your best friend
she is your best friend so she must be a special person?
But...spending time alone...i don't know...
It does seem odd...
but in the end she's your best friend, do you really think she'd let your boyfriend cheat on you with her?
2006-11-28 12:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to talk to each of them and let them know it bothers you that they are spending time together without you.
I'm afraid it sounds like he likes her a bit too much.
2006-11-28 12:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just friendly, depends on what his natural personality is.
2006-11-28 12:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie - he is interested in your friend!!!! Oh, those high school days......there are so many boys...move on!
2006-11-28 12:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, he is no longer u b/f and she is no longer ur friend. it is hard but distance urself with no explanation. for good
2006-11-28 12:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhoh! sounds like he likes her.
maybe she isn't such a good friend afterall, no friend would take your b/f away from you.
2006-11-28 12:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋