not like sexually literally sleep with her just..sleep. its just soemthing i want to do but cant because of her and probably my parents. why? i dont want to have sex with her at all i just want to..sleep..i dont understand...
2006-11-28 12:24:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i get it shut up! first of all i have an incredibly strong will NOT to have sex and my parents are aware of the strength of my will. i assure you wether you or anyone else or indeed even most people my age would have sex regardless of temptation i wont ..why? im more stuburn than i am horny lol. i know you dont trust me. but im not neccesarily like everyone else.
2006-11-28 12:45:57 · update #1
Well, duh. I wouldn't think it's in the best interest of any parent to encourage their 15-year-old to sleep with his girlfriend!
2006-11-28 12:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because, no matter how much they trust you, your conviction, or your girlfriend, things DO happen.
Trust me, I was the same way at your age, and things HAPPENED.
I didn't want to have sex, and we didn't, but we still fooled around, and I felt wrong about it afterwards.
Maybe you can start off slow, like sleep on top of the covers, with your door open, so your parents can check on you. That way, nothing could possibly happen, and you can still cuddle with her, and your parents' minds will be at ease.
Don't take offense to what people are saying, because most of them either remember what they were like back then, and can't relate, or can't remember what they were like, and can't relate.
Calm down, and rationalize this with you parents and with your girlfriend.
If she doesn't want to though? Don't push the issue. It'll only drive her away from you.
If your parents still say no, give it some time (meaning months, not weeks) and ask again, in an adult voice. Don't whine or argue, simply state facts and prove you are more responsible than they think.
:)
2006-11-28 13:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by A Wells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you Dont Understand then you really Are too Young to be sleeping with your Girlfriend!
I commend your parents. Believe Me there will be Plenty of Time down the Road to do All the Finer Adult things in Life. Just be Patient and Become an Adult First!
I see Too many Kids ruin there Lives over bad choices they make before than can fully commprehend the consequences of their actions.
Good Luck to you and Your Girlfiend. Be patient and you will have a Relationship that could last a Lifetime :-)
2006-11-28 12:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is still a very young age and parents have much more knowledge of the world than you do. Perhaps your parents don't trust you? Simply sleeping in the same bed does lead to other things, whether you deny it or not. It might not happen that one night but over time you'll want more. And that's when things could get out of hand, which is exactly what you're parents don't want. Your parents love you and only want the best for you. Trust in their judgement, just for now, I say. =)
2006-11-28 12:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by natofield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't understand why, then you are definitely too young to "sleep", as you say, with your girlfriend.
Ask yourself, do I have a job, do I want to support a child at my young age, do I want a career, do I want to go to college, do I want to live a little and see the world...etc.?
You have your whole life ahead of you with plenty of time to "sleep" with girlfriends and I am sure you will have plenty of them before you find the right one. And be smart about it and mature. Wear protection, don't accept your girlfriends explanation that she is already on the pill or that she can't get pregnant. Use your own brain!!!!
And finally, Good Luck!!
2006-11-28 12:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most parents wont allow because they feel u can get tempted...this is not about trust bt about temptation .if u dnt wanna have sex with her then why r u so desperate to sleep with her.i mean ure just 15,if u really need to sleep beside her,then wait till ure 18 when ull have ur own house ok?
2006-11-29 08:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by falzy jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK......assuming that you are honest about the " only want to sleep with her and that's all" it IS a nice idea....BUT....always that but word.....look at this from your parents her parents and about anybody else that reads this....you two are b/f & g/f...trust me on this ...THINGS can happen....the best intentions often go astray...I know my parents would not let me sleep ( just sleep ) with a g/f that I had at that age.....cool your jets and be happy with the situation as it is....less complicated, more fun, and very safe. My Hats off to the parents and to you for respecting their wishes.
2006-11-28 12:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are 15 and curious,,,,things happen at that age. No mom should let her teenage son or daughter sleep in the same bed for any reason....you want to do that ,,,finish school,,,get a job and get your own place. Thats just disrespectful in your parents home.
2006-11-28 12:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would definitely be in a "sticky" situation eventually....its for the best- sleeping together leads to sex which leads to a baby before you even graduate!It kind of like if I said "I just want to break in the bank-but I wont take any money" too good of an opportunity to pass up.
2006-11-28 12:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sleeping in the same bed with someone puts you in a position where sex is likely to happen.
Listen to your parents!
2006-11-28 12:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lady J 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would hope her parents wouldn't allow it either. You are both at the age where sexual urges are difficult to control and I don't think you want to think about being a father at 16.
2006-11-28 12:32:26 · answer #11 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋