so let me get this straight,.. you want to fall in love with a great looking guy or want a great looking guy to fall in with you. but when asked the question what would you do if a great looking guy admitted he's totally in love with you and would like the chance to get to know you,.. you question his intentions and even find it scary or fishy, on the grounds you don't know him,.... but that's the point when you first meet anybody but oh no instead of giving the guy who admits to loving you and would like the chance to know you. you'd rather meet another stranger and hope to fall in love after going out. it's never enough whatever we guys do is it. why does everything have to be so complicated?
2006-11-28 12:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone I don't know telling me they love me would freak me out because THEY DON"T KNOW ME. It has nothing to do with looks.
2006-11-28 12:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wooow slow down there tiger .Someone had a bad experience!Now from a woman not all women are like that .Some women which i think is totally wrong ,they punish the good guy for what the bad guy has done.I can't explain that to you because i don't have a side affect of dumbness after a bad break up so before you get serious about a relationship really really get to know that person before you put your whole heart on the table.....GOOD LUCK and from a real woman it sucks because te guys that don't deserve the good guy gets him treats him like crap and then mess it up for the next woman.So trust me your not the only sex suffering here! keep your head up
2006-11-28 20:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is just me...but if a guy told me he was in love with me...yea id be freaked, but id give him a chance as long as he didnt want ot go to fast, and go crazy on me...but as for falling in love...i think that it just happens... i mean if u( for example) showed up at my door and told me u loved me...id freak cuz i have totally no idea who u r....but if i sorta knew you...then id get to know u more....and maybe if i felt the same way would move even further in the relationship.
Basically alot of girls freak and look for fishyness becasue they are frightened by love, and afraid to fall for a stranger. Yea i know its crazy, but except it.
Hope that helped....
:)
2006-11-28 20:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the games that guys and girls play with each other. Men do things that women can't possibly comprehend, too. So don't act all boo-hoo innocent. We all play games and some times you win, some times you lose.
2006-11-28 20:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says we all want a great looking guy? Personally, I'm just looking for a nice, intelligent man who'll love me for who I am.
2006-11-28 20:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by kattsia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm you make a good point...and im sorry youve had such problems.. but all i can say is in general..if a guy says that hes not usually sincere...good guys take the heat for all the bad ones... dont let it get ya down..keep tryin just try not to be so forward.....dont just come out and say..i love you...just let them know your interested and youd like to hang out get to know them...thats all.... dont pile on a buncha feelings..you may intimidate her
2006-11-28 20:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for it, come on, if a great-looking guy is in love with me and he wants to get to know me better I would just...omg... thats like... when is that going to happen to me?!?!
2006-11-28 20:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lifes complicated, girls are complicated, guys are complicated. and ya know the funny thing is the decision us girls make dont even always make sense to us but what can i say, were girls!
2006-11-28 20:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by shelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude ur going after the wrong type of girls or something cuz when my bf (even thoguh I knew him) told me he loved me I told him that I loved him too. Yeah some girls r low maintanace like me. Idk why does it u and her r the only 1 who really knows.
2006-11-28 20:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by vampsshallruleagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um yeah not really a god idea wat u just typed but here it goes!
if the coolest guy in the school (Chris) asked me out i woul say no. i woul say no because hes a TOTAL jerkand hes really mean to me! he brags ALL the time and i would just like to kick his *** ot of the school! thats MY opinion!
-hannah
2006-11-28 20:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by hannah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋