Me and my husband are going to be getting divorced but we remain good friends. He has a girlfriend i have a boyfriend and we are happy. One of the reasons why me and my husband are divorcing is because i didnt want kids with him but I want children with my boyfriend? Is that wrong of me. Or is it because i didnt love my husband as much as i thought? Thanks
2006-11-28 12:13:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
to tell you the truth, you shouldn't of married him if you didn't won't any kids with him.I think that you didn't love him as much as you thought. well, I hope everything works out!!!
2006-11-28 12:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you're mature enough to start a family with anyone. Married to one guy, dating another and wanting to have his baby and not your husbands. Don't get offended, but you have some growing up to do before you drag an innocent child into the picture. If you tire of this boyfriend... will you be looking for another to have kids with? Think about it.
2006-11-28 12:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you asked...
The Bible only permits divorce in the case of infidelity. You should be reading and studying the books of Timothy written by the Apostle Paul. He was phenomenal! I hope that you and he believe in GOD and if you do you will read and study HIS WORD together. Begin by looking for a Church. I would suggest a non-denominational Church of Christ. Become a part there and study with a group of true Christians. Then make a decision. One of you can make consessions for the other but I believe you must do so in accordance with GOD's WORD. Have a great week!!
2006-11-28 12:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want children with the man, definitely don't have them but I would take some time before jumping into a new relationship otherwise in a couple years from now you might be right back in the same situation.
Obviously you are already dating someone but you might want to live on your own for while before committing so that you know you are sure this time.
2006-11-28 12:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by wyllow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you have done what is right for you both. Don't sit there wondering why things happen. Just accept that they happen, and you may know in a few years why your life went down this path. I think that for now, you should just be grateful that your ex husband was nice about this.
2006-11-28 12:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that is wrong of you to now want kids. Possibly you just decided that you are at a time that you would like kids.
2006-11-28 12:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by tweed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, you couldn't see your husband in the role of a father.
2006-11-28 12:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know, you are the only one who know the answer, it sounds that you think it is wrong...
just do not have kids out of marriage, most kids who's parents are not married will have problem with security in life later on...
2006-11-28 13:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you dont feel your husband is capable. why would you divorce your husband if you still like him. its hard on everybody, and wrong.
2006-11-28 12:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by i must be bored, im on Y answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is good luck to you and I hope you are happy with any decision you make.
2006-11-28 12:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by spence6209@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋