Need advice overcoming dating rejection?

Question

A couple of weeks ago I met a woman at bar, she is 33 and I am 34. She pursued me that evening and offered her phone number. Later that evening I walked her to her car and asked if she was available the following evening and she said she was.

I called her the next day and we went to a nice Italian resaturant. We laughed alot and really seemed to hit it off. I treated her very well, the way all women should be treated.

When we arrived at her condominium I offered to walk her to the entrance of the condo. She refused. But I walked her to the entrance anyways. She hugged me and told me she had a great time. Because she acted sort of strange at the end of the date I told her I would love to hear from if she had the time during the week. She said she would call, but as of yet no call. Because I left the ball in her court I've deceided not to call her. Considering she is 33 years I assume I can hold her at her word.

Problem is I'm hurting and can't stop thinking about her.

Answer 1

Give her a couple more days, then if she hasn't called yet then move on. Its her loss. Dont let something like that bring you down.

Answer 2

You said it had been a couple of weeks... call her and say you were thinking about her and wondered if she'ld like to go out for dinner again... it's not like you've been stalking her or anything... one phone call won't hurt... and if she refuses... let that be that... and move on... one other thing... it did sound weird that she didn't want you to walk her all the way in... so maybe be prepared for other things that could be going on... like a bf or husband... ya know ....hope this helps... good luck!!!

Answer 3

maybe she has been busy, since you are bothered as to why she didn't call, you should call her and let her know you had a great time and you are interested in seeing her again.

Answer 4

baby brace yourself cuz you got played don't let her get to you move on